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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
10 months ago. Wednesday, March 12, 2025 at 8:05 PM

Yes, I am still around. My caregiving for my wife increases steadily. I am switching to a healthcare system that recently built and moved into a new facility less than two miles away.

Yesterday and the day before my wife lost the mobility she had and I struggled to move her around. I implemented the wheelchair I had and bought a walker. She uses the wheelchair at the table and tried the walker, but just as I was about to give up on her she regained the limited mobility missing for two days. Periodically dehydration sneaks in and that may have been the cause, I put more effort in fluids and that created the improvement (that was a relief).

I have no one to watch her, so I can not make the long trek to the VA for healthcare, so the Medicare insurance with the nearby facility will have to do. That is for as long as it exists. Even with co-pays. Still making payments on the hospital bill for the stay about IBS. Brat. fiber and a high-quality Probiotic.

No time for much else to report, but on a good day I attend to home administration in the morning and British TV the last two hours of the day before bed.

JIm

 


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