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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
9 months ago. Thursday, April 17, 2025 at 9:42 AM

Humans have been around a long time, and although survival may have dominated everyday life, there have been enough examples of ancient intellectual development and wisdom to give me cause to emphasize "There is nothing new under the sun" (Ecclesiastes 1:9, Holy Bible)

"The wisdom literature from Sumer and Babylonia is among the most ancient in the world, with the Sumerian documents dating back to the third millennium BC and the Babylonian dating to the second millennium BC. Many of the extant texts uncovered at Nippur are as ancient as the 18th century BC. Google AI"

I am a believer in a Liberal Arts education because it opens a person's mind to think, even think "outside the box."

 Heraclitus* famously stated, "There is nothing permanent except change."  *Heraclitus (/ˌhɛrəˈklaɪtəs/; Ancient Greek: Ἡράκλειτος Hērákleitos; fl. c. 500 BC) was an ancient Greek pre-Socratic philosopher from the city of Ephesus, . . ."

If you want an efficient way to learn about ancient wisdom, I recommend: Bartlett's Familiar  Quotations  ISBN 0-316-08460-3, first edition was offered in 1882. I have the 17th edition, published in 2002.

Not a book to just read through, but great for scanning or using like a dictionary or encyclopedia.

A search of ancient books of wisdom will generate a list for you to consider.


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