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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I studied to acquire my Master's status I discovered the M/S relationship existed probably for all the history of humans. Religion and Western Culture distort this greatly. Using codes and euphemisms even denial masks it presents the fact many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marriage friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her" "Love her" I thought I was and did now I know without a doubt I need to be a master, not some preconceived idea we are to live as equals.
3 months ago. January 31, 2024 at 6:26 PM

I wonder how many people sought to find the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Maybe real gold by panning in a stream. Or the BIG WIN in PowerBall? First I suggest you clearly define exactly what gaining riches means and whether is it the answer to everything for you.

Me? Having a lot of something means you also have a lot of responsibility. Keeping it may be a big distraction and a destroyer of pure joy. Let's consider your sex partner. After experiencing many lovers do you know what works best for you? If you meet up with that person does it last? You realize every kind of relationship is a mutual agreement and requires give and take by each participant.  Contentment?

Contentment isn't settling for something it is appreciating what you have and enjoying it as much as possible. My worst experiences? The old cliche' that the grass is always greener in the other pasture. I do not know perfect anything in this world. Love does cover imperfection but even love is an action word. However you define it, work on it so it is a success for both lovers.


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