Hello Friends,
Many of you who know me or follow my blog know that my wife of 39 years in a monogamous relationship is stricken with Alzheimer's/Dementia/Aphasia and I have been her only caregiver. I moved to PA then Boyertown because family encouraged me telling me they would help us. That did not happen so I have been a stranger in a strange land without more than a token amount of social contact.
During the last year, I searched for a companion woman to be a friend with benefits to help me get through the challenges I face. All I got was many false hopes and scammed for several thousands of dollars. However, I serendipitously became involved with BDSM in particular M/S and this has opened my mind to possibilities I would not have considered in the past: 1) Because I will continue to care for my wife and not divorce her I now declared we have an open relationship and 2) I now want to have polyamorous relationships for 2 reasons: A) I want a lover or lovers to not be tied to me and my situation and B) Under my current life constraints I am not free to seek a woman who would best be a compatible match; Not in the usual way I had before dating.
What will I do? What do I expect? I have only a vague notion at this time. The biggest hindrance is dating sites with so much ambiguity and pretenses. The next concern? How to detect a scammer before they pluck my heartstrings and surprise me with their trap?
I am off into the unknown. MY BEST BUDDIE SONNY
