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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Thursday, February 29, 2024 at 9:54 PM

Hello Friends,

Not having relatives or friends nearby and in a town I never lived in and never belonged to anything here has made my days harder than they should have been. The blog is like having an imaginary friend sitting across the table from me. I share the moods as they come and go. I Apologize to those who have strong empathy and feel helpless because there is only so much that be exchanged in this way. I can say that being able to express myself and getting some of you to respond is as close as I can get to having a person here to talk to. Even my doctors and counselors are via video appointments. So, living partially in a natural (all too real) world and partially in a virtual world is more than some people on this planet have. Thanks. And I know our real family and friends let us down, but many people, especially the Veterans Administration, have become my family.  Thanks Again


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