Hello Friends,
If I could enjoy something that I would call fun these days, what would it be? I have many interests that I once could engage with but, as a full-time caregiver, find difficult or impossible. Artwork (painting), gardening, geology (mineral collecting including crystals for jewels), country rides, stopping at road stands, going out to eat, attending festivals, and participating (musically) in festivals. Songwriting, playing instruments, recording engineer, producer, and proprietor of an independent record/publishing company: I can work with this category somewhat, along with caregiving.
Completely abandoned going to the beach, fishing, and swimming. My wife can not stay put in a restaurant, so that is out, too. There is a category that I would not call fun, but I do gain some satisfaction by accomplishing it. tasks within it.
I do gain some satisfaction with housework, like cleaning and decorating. House repairs like electrical repairs and plumbing. Small appliance repair. Landscaping and yard work
Once my caregiving day is over, I can watch some television programs, shows, and movies.
So you see, my friends, I do not need to do something described as fun. All I need is to be satisfied with being useful (and avoid the traps set for me online).