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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Sunday, April 14, 2024 at 9:28 AM

Hello Friends,

I watched a television series about ancient people in Britain, including the Druids and Romans. It was as entertaining as it was a depiction of brutality and violent incidents. That was the story's thrust, but one memorable incident stuck in my mind.

A prince with little ambition and more empathy had married a woman, his complete opposite in character. She relished her position and anticipated a rise to power. In a dispute between her and the prince, he turned to her and said, "You are beautiful on the outside but ugly on the inside."

As a male of the human race, I have often been fooled by a woman's outward appearance and assumed she was beautiful on the inside as she presented herself to me physically. It was only a matter of time for her to reveal her true character, and several times, she was like the princess in the story: beautiful on the outside but ugly on the inside. However, I discovered more than that.

I discovered that some women I encountered who were not beauty queens, models, or movie stars with impressive photogenic qualities yet were indeed beautiful on the inside. When seeking a companion or mate, the challenge for men is to remember this and not rush to judge.

The women we meet must not be expected to be the quintessential depiction of commercial mass media and entertainment. We must take the time to learn who they are and let them know who we are because men can be handsome on the outside and ugly on the inside, too.

 

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