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When I studied to acquire my Master's status I discovered the M/S relationship existed probably for all the history of humans. Religion and Western Culture distort this greatly. Using codes and euphemisms even denial masks it presents the fact many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marriage friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her" "Love her" I thought I was and did now I know without a doubt I need to be a master, not some preconceived idea we are to live as equals.
1 month ago. April 14, 2024 at 1:28 PM

Hello Friends,

I watched a television series about ancient people in Britain, including the Druids and Romans. It was as entertaining as it was a depiction of brutality and violent incidents. That was the story's thrust, but one memorable incident stuck in my mind.

A prince with little ambition and more empathy had married a woman, his complete opposite in character. She relished her position and anticipated a rise to power. In a dispute between her and the prince, he turned to her and said, "You are beautiful on the outside but ugly on the inside."

As a male of the human race, I have often been fooled by a woman's outward appearance and assumed she was beautiful on the inside as she presented herself to me physically. It was only a matter of time for her to reveal her true character, and several times, she was like the princess in the story: beautiful on the outside but ugly on the inside. However, I discovered more than that.

I discovered that some women I encountered who were not beauty queens, models, or movie stars with impressive photogenic qualities yet were indeed beautiful on the inside. When seeking a companion or mate, the challenge for men is to remember this and not rush to judge.

The women we meet must not be expected to be the quintessential depiction of commercial mass media and entertainment. We must take the time to learn who they are and let them know who we are because men can be handsome on the outside and ugly on the inside, too.

 

Susie Q{💙} - I totally agree and find that someone actually becomes more attractive the more I know of them. Character makes a person unbelievably attractive to me.
1 month ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - Beauty fades.
Is why I was taught from a very young age. To always judge someone's caricature by what's inside.
Never by the outward appearance.
Looks may at first be what draws you in but those same looks can be very deceiving.

Thank You
Great Blog 😊
1 month ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female){âš“ } - I feel it's more about our expectations of what beauty is.. Is beautiful or handsome being without imperfections or does imperfections make them stand out from others as to be "beautiful" or "handsome"? !

I was at Target yesterday and saw a woman I'm guessing was in her 60s, possibly older idk but the way she carried herself and took care of herself, I only hope I can look half as good as she did when I'm her age.

I'm glad that stereotypes of beauty are changing, to embrace everyone's unique beauty.
1 month ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - Absolutely
1 month ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female){âš“ } - I feel that sometimes *we* may be initially drawn to someone because they have a nice smile or their eyes but speaking for myself what continues my attention/attraction is how that person treats me and how they treat others.
1 month ago
ladypatience - I have met people that their insides were just beautiful to me, that their light side and their demons were perfectly imperfect. I can meet some one that has a great personality that physically im not very attracted to but i can become extremely attracted in every sense after getting to kmow the person. Even more so than if i was physically attracted.
1 month ago
Andron Dom - That is the best kind of process and outcome.
1 month ago

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