Andron

The Culture that has been here all the time

When I studied to acquire my Master's status I discovered the M/S relationship existed probably for all the history of humans. Religion and Western Culture distort this greatly. Using codes and euphemisms even denial masks it presents the fact many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marriage friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her" "Love her" I thought I was and did now I know without a doubt I need to be a master, not some preconceived idea we are to live as equals.

Loosing Interest in a Lover

3 months ago. July 27, 2024 at 5:15 PM

To Friends and Acquaintances,

Do you get tired of a lover? Do you tire quickly, or does it depend on something? Kinky folks should have an edge on avoiding getting bored with a lover. Isn't that true? There should always be something new to try: a position, a location, a toy, or a situation. Am I right to assume this?

What does love have to do with it? What about personality? Is it more than sex?

I have gotten tired or bored with a lover quickly sometimes (almost immediately), but three years, seven years and forty years worked for me with a significant other.

It would be best if you let go sometimes.

Susie Q{Daddy Ant} - In my opinion, if you get bored with a lover then maybe they weren’t something special/important in your life. They served a purpose but that’s all.

I don’t think the Lifestyle offers any more of an assurance of not losing interest than any other life choice. We are, after all, still just people. Vanilla sex can be fun and adventurous too.

Believing kinksters have an edge on a good/fullfilling/adventirous sex life is kinda short sighted.

3 months ago

Andron - Well, I am just an outsider looking through a window these days, after all.

3 months ago

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