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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Monday, November 18, 2024 at 7:36 AM

Blog readers, do you believe "It is better to act and apologize rather than ask for permission"?

I worked under a supervisor who used that as one of his mottos. He was prejudicial and critical of women in leadership roles, primarily where we worked. He often ignored their orders and did as he pleased, using his motto as a defense.

This is the citation for the concept (Google AI presents it nicely):

This phrase means that it's often more effective to take action first, even if it might require an apology later, rather than getting bogged down by asking for permission beforehand, which can lead to delays or potential roadblocks; essentially, prioritizing proactive action over bureaucratic processes.  

Key points about this saying:
Attribution:
This quote is commonly attributed to Rear Admiral Grace Hopper, a pioneering computer scientist known for her innovative approach to problem-solving.  

Context:
This saying is often used in situations where quick decision-making and initiative are valued, especially in leadership roles.  

Caveats:
While taking action can be beneficial, it's important to consider the potential consequences of not asking permission first, especially in situations where approval is crucial or where actions could have significant negative impacts. 

What are your thoughts on this philosophy?

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