Drinfear's Ravings

 As I have already said, on far more than one occasion, I believe, and am SURE that I will be corrected if I am wrong here, MY path is not the same as anyone else's path through this world.  THIS is what makes every HuBe  (Pronounced Hoo BEE which stands for HUMAN BEING) unique. I may not understand every HuBe's walk through life, but then I do not HAVE to in order to accept them as they are.. Nor do I expect, or REQUIRE anyone else not walking MY path to understand MINE.. But DO expect to be accepted, at least HERE, in a Community of My 'confessed' Peers.. 

 I can and will accept a multitude of differing viewpoints and experiences among My fellow HuBe's under the vast umbrella that this Lifestyle I have devote well over half of My considerable life, and the VAST majority of My focus to living. Alas, I am only (I've used this word before, which I have been labeled by My cats, 'Hooman', and I accept this label (ALMOST) willingly.. From this point on, REGARDLESS of walk through life, and ESPECIALLY despite ranting and raving to the contrary, I will address EVERYONE I come into contact with as HuBe's.. We are ALL Human.. If W/we are cut, W/we bleed red. PERIOD. Anyone choosing not to be addressed as such has been warned of the consequences. From here on out, I REFUSE to be bullied to address ANYONE specifically beyond the parameters I have lain out in this manifesto.. Anyone choosing NOT to be labeled as a HuBe by Me has this right to do so, just as *I* have the right to call them 'person' if they refuse to accept this moniker.. The whole 30 million different labels HAS to stop somewhere, and THIS is MY line in the sand.  

 Flame away those that feel their inclusion in the Human Race is too restrictive.. You are FREE to not agree with, contact Me or concede with My views.. The door for those that don't is THAT way *POINTS*..Feel free to see yourself out, I will not hamper, hinder or spend more thought on those that choose this path..

Dom

 Yesterday, PrincessFlitterP and I were blessed enough to start My Flitter on her journey.. A rough road lies ahead, but one W/we are A/all excited to walk down together.. She, My Flitter, went in with O/our support, and got signed up to take classes.. So I will be helping, and pushing her, to get the classes out of the way.. I can't wait to see the smile on her face when she passes her tests.. I'm just waiting for the day it happens..

 Last night marks a rare occasion for Me.. I woke up, literally singing a song I had never heard.. This is only the second time in My life this has happened, and I immediately, to My chagrin, began writing it down here on the laptop I was recently gifted on notepad.. It didn't take long before the song blurred from one tempo to another and eventually was lost in the multitude of songs whose lyrics, tempos and rhythms I have memorized over the years.. I TRIED to record the tempo to this song, and I KNOW it would have been a hit had I been able to do so..

 I understand that some out here might look down on Me and consider Me an 'insta-Dom'.. I do not take offense to this view.. I have always been the type to go for what I wanted, and damn the cost.. I do wear My heart on My sleeve, and have never hidden this fact.. Has it come back to bite Me in the arse? Damn RIGHT it has, has it changed the way I look at the world? Not in the least..  My newest girl is the perfect example.. She and I did not speak long, but talking is one thing, SHOWING is another.. She gave Me multiple chances along the way, as well as ample reason, to back out of this arrangement in the beginning. Her opening those doors for Me to, in the immortal words of Snagglepuss, 'exit stage right, even'.. SHOWED Me a soul that needed what I could give to her.. Her willingness to allow Me an out showed Me how much she wanted someone to stay, and how much she wanted to FIND that ONE that would take the time to see beyond the negativity and bluster..

Someone to take the time to dig through all the outer crust and the negativity caked around the gem I saw buried far beneath the surface.. Deeper than the forceful exterior she presented to most others.. Do NOT get Me wrong here.. She IS a force of Nature.. But she is a force that pushes Me to be better.. To build Me back to be the best I can, and SHOULD, be again.. She, like ME, wants what is best for the Family, PERIOD.. For that I can only ever say thanks for getting Me back on the track I never should have fallen off of.. 

I Love you, My FlitterFly..

Your Daddy,

Dom

P.S. For the final time on Your Special Day, Happy Birthday, My love, from Me AND the Nat.. (I heard her whisper it in your ear as she kissed you before she left for work..)

 Today marks a month that Flitter has been living here full time.. It ALSO happens to be My Flitter's Birthday.. (as most Gentlemen do, I will NOT list the number.. SHE can, as can others out here..) 

 But I want to wish My Flitter the VERY happiest of Birthdays on HER Day, and want to do all I can to help her in ANY way Daddy can, to make it the best day she has ever had.. She is already on that trajectory.. I just want to keep that momentum going for the rest of her day..

 PLEASE, wish My Flitter a Happy Birthday with Me..

I love you, My princess FlitterFly..

Dom

 My Flitter let the cat out of the bag.. So here is a pic of Me at 17.. PLEASE note no mosses, can, chocolate or otherwise, were harmed in the taking of this picture.. My friend made a post where someone pondered about mousses getting hurt back in the 80's.. 

 I wrote a song many years ago.. It came out as a poem.. I hope I am able to find it again, having recently returned to a site I have not made an appearance on in many a year.. This is the chorus to that song..

 She kneels to respect the power she gave Him,

Over all she is, or she ever will be.

 Her trust in Him warmly engulfs her,

THIS is what being free really means.

 She knows she was born only to serve Him,

Knowing a commitment few marriages will ever know,

 He smiles as He wraps a hand in her hair,

Thus starts the taming of her soul..

Dom

11/29/10

   Again, I sit here cold and empty,

My past, it seems, has returned once more..

 My battered heart was once more offered,

To only fall and be further trampled on the floor.

 Solitude is again rearing it's head,

Loneliness creeping in from behind.

 Will this cycle ever truly end,

just one of many questions on this weary mind.

 I've spent whole lifetimes searching, it seems,

For the one to become wholly My Own.

 I know that she's out there, somewhere,

Where she is hiding the Gods only know.

 I know that it's just an illusion,

That in time it will all pass somehow.

 One day I'll awake, the pain will be gone,

So why not make one day right NOW..?

Dom

08/21/17

 It has been brought to My attention over several blogs now which I have read, and even responded to, on occasion.. It can be summed up most succinctly by the phrase 'in this day and age we don't settle'.. I agree the times are coming to the point where 'I want what I want, and I want it NOW' is the 'norm'.. This mentality is fine and I am NOT here to judge anyone for anything they choose to do.. That is NOT My goal or My place in life.. 

  I am a recently turned 55 year old Dom/Master/ (but MOSTLY) Daddy.. I DO understand, FAR too well, that in 2024 'we don't settle, I have far too much experience over the years of looking through app after app and website after website..  I am the FIRST to preach safety, especially when meeting someone online face-to-face.. I HAVE been that advocate for years now, and have EVEN 'secretly chaperoned' such meetings in the past.. Having been present and in the moment in case the meeting went wrong in her opinion .. I WOULD like to point out, however, in MY opinion ONLY here, a days worth of conversation is sometimes NOT enough to agree to a face to face meeting.. There is more than ONE side to the safety issue, 'ESPECIALLY in 2024'.. SOME out here do need to talk and establish a foundation of Trust and Respect before agreeing to such face-to-face meetings..
That being said, meeting someone one day online and agreeing to a meeting is fine, as long as both parties stay safe.. Remain vigilant and stay aware of what is going on around YOU, if this is the case.. ALWAYS let others know WHERE you're going and WHO you are meeting.. Safety first is ALWAYS the clear and present issue.. But SOME out here DO need a deeper connection than just one day of talking before feeling safe to meet in person..

  SOME out here, on EITHER side of the D/s or M/s or even the DD/lg dynamic can be hiding issues.. Issues that become apparent after more than just ONE day of talking back and forth.. TIME spent CAN be spent on someone not worthy, BUT isn't it better to learn THROUGH these conversations that they throw red flags before meeting face-to-face where these flags can turn into physical harm or WORSE..?

 Just a couple songs I sing and the girls love to hear.. First of all, Natalie's favorite.. When I sing it, it puts her (ALMOST instantly) to sleep..

Then there are songs My Flitter loves Me singing THIS song..

another song I sang for Flitter that caught her off guard..

LASTLY, a song I sang for Flitter that blew her mind 

I hope others enjoy these just like My girls do..

*EDITED There IS a song I have sung to Natalie that I believe Flitter has not had the chance to hear yet.. Thar song would be..

Dom