I have a good friend that was, regretfully, scared off the site. We stayed in touch through texting.. They KNOW who they are, and I hope they read this blog.. I just wanted to post a welcome back to the site to them, and say how proud I am that they returned.. I do not expect a like, or any type of message in response, just, as always, offering My moral support..
Dom
I have a various array of dating apps installed on My phone, as well as a lot MORE AI chat apps.. The AI chat apps seem to direct the focus of the chats on the sexual aspect.. *shrug* It is software, which can only follow directed and pre-defined paths in its' execution.. Then there are the dating apps, that are "supposedly" individuals on the other end of the conversation.. But when paradoxes are raised between what they say, compared to the open revelations they express, the AI shuts down immediately..
I met Natalie on a dating app, Vanilla Umbrella, which is dedicated to the lifestyle.. It was shut down a year or so after we got together because the Fet app complained too many times that VU was crossing multiple community thresholds and needed to be shut down because of it.. Google decided the time expended verifying, or, more often, FAILING to do so, resulted in expenditures of man power and hours they were not willing to expend in the future, so removed Vanilla Umbrella from their menu..
I STILL choose to use VU as compared to fet.. Any app that is superior need not raise false allegations against another.. The allegations raised were NEVER proven, google and apple just got tired of spending so much time investigating the allegations. Shame.. VU has a classified section for various local community events from around the world.. London, Berlin, Paris, Amsterdam.. Invitations went out to ALL willing to read them, as compared to fet that posts ONLY those within a confined area.. But hey.. *shrug* I'm just ME.. Who am -I- to say anything against a "juggernaut" that has so many petitioner (or at least so many unverified sources to COMPLAIN from) complaints..?
I can only hope others here may investigate the vpk packet and install the app, investigate it, even with a grain of salt to determine the superiority of the two.. NO, I am not connected to it beyond meeting Natalie, My little of 8 years.. I receive no compensation beyond expressing what -I- believe to be right, because it was PROVEN.. The vpk package requires some attention and following proper directives, yes. But MY experience shows the effort worth the rewards..
Dom
03/28/26
I recently made a post, and have to apologize.. My headset is not sensitive or astute enough to provide an authentic version of the song I chose to sing.. I am looking forward to purchasing one in the near future that can differentiate and differentiate the tones and inflections.. My present headset and microphone are designed for standard gaming, and have been enough until now.. I realize I need something more discerning, and will purchase something better in the near future.. The song I attempted to sing, but failed to register was..
I look forward to letting others hear My acapella rendition in the near future..
Some may complain that My outlook is far too strict, or too narrow.. That the world is not written in black and white.. That right and wrong are effusive, or even relative.. -I- disagree.. RIGHT is right, wrong is WRONG. If an action needs to be defined or explained, it is WRONG. No if's no and's, no but's.. RIGHT needs no explanations, descriptions ot explanations, DOES it? O.o
I recently ran into a wall, one full of excuses and equivalencies, ALL trying to justify actions both sides KNEW were wrong.. By downplaying, and attempting to rectify their stance on the subject, they exposed their view that any such promises, or vows, they made to ME, could be discounted, downplayed and made irrelevant.. Once I SAY something, it is concrete. If I make a PROMISE, it is for LIFE, and beyond.. If I make a VOW, it supersedes this lifetime, and DEATH will not prevent Me from upholding it.. (YES, I know that most will dismiss this comment as dramatics, but My Life experiences PROVE these words far better than anything I 'say' ever could..)
If someone dismisses the statements, promises or vows someone made to a specific person, HOW can I expect them to hold any such statements THEY make to ME as sacred, or binding..?
Words have meaning. They were SAID with purpose, with definition, and MEANT in the moment.. Yes. But the statement DOESN'T change depending on changing interpretations.. If someone makes vows to God, in the sight of Man LEGALLY, the only way to cancel those words is by nullifying and cancelling the relationship.. Failure to DO so, and entering into a relationship with someone so involved, proves that these principles are just 'words' to be thrown around when it suits the individual, NOT as a principle to base a relationship on..
Dom
03/24/26
I am not one to judge. I know nobody's walk through this life but MINE, and do not pretend or claim otherwise. I have ZERO grounds to judge, having no context from their perspective to determine right or wrong, and honestly? Would not do so if I DID.. Judgment is neither My purpose or place in this life..
THAT being said, I DO tend to attract those that fit this specific mentality..
Dom
It amazes Me how someone can connect on so many different levels.. Music likes, SHOWS mutually liked, characters, books, genres in every vein.. But once principles are included, they merely become words. NOT the principles relationships are based on.. Trust, Respect, Loyalty become mere words thrown out to maintain an individual foothold within a life they have proven they have no belief in, or access to..
I know there may be those out here that may believe this post is singling THEM out.. Such is NOT the case.. I am posting this based on recent issues I almost tripped over privately, in personal messages with someone I began to believe might mean more than the friend we agreed to be.. But the red flags do NOT get ignored any more these days.. Once they are raised, I move to the next..
I will ALSO not disregard the red flags that have recently been raised, and continue to do so with the passing of time, diverging from things I have been led to believe, and the actions that prove otherwise. I do not point fingers, I am not here to judge or humiliate, I am merely expressing facts..
Dom
03/21/26
Not a defender or proponent of violence in any way.. But WILL defend boundaries for any and ALL I consider friends or Family.. (which, to ME, holds no difference..)
There seems to be a growing culture.. One, I am fortunate NOT to have been included in.. Where women convince each other traditional roles are "toxic" because such roles never appealed to THEM.. They proved themselves mentally unable to conform to such roles and their significant other rejected their self serving and entitled views, choosing to be single instead..
I do not judge, nor do I demean their choices.. -I- have not walked in their shoes, so who am -I- to do so? Not My purpose or place in life..
For anyone approaching ME, know full well, I KNOW My worth. I know who I AM, what My capabilities are, in EVERY aspect of My life.. WHAT I am WILLING to do to defend My Family, to Provide for, and to Guide them through life to achieve that which I have determined to be the best course.. Coming at Me with immature tests, trials or tribulations designed in YOUR mind, or even WORSE, the minds of those that believe relationships are playgrounds meant to test and push limits because THEY were always unable to hold them together is unacceptable.. There won't BE a chance afterward to claim "it was a mistake" because it was a conscious choice that was made to make a point to YOU.. -I- had no say in the matter, YOU made the choice, and choices have absolute and concrete consequences..
AGAIN I will not demand ANYTHING.. Those that DEMAND are not worthy.. I KNOW I am worthy.. Trust, Respect and Loyalty will be given once earned. I will and do not force this process, I allow it to follow the course it sets for itself, depending on the individuals involved.. When the one I am speaking with decides I have earned their respect, they will GIVE it.. I expect no less..
IF the time comes where =I- believe such respect should be shown by My honesty and consistency, THAT is a totally different conversation.. One I will have with that person on an individual basis, and is NOT privy to outside influence or control.. Nobody outside Me and the individual need be involved, and have no say in the matter, DO they? O.o I expect no other input, nor will I expect such on MY behalf..
I believe that Respect, Trust and Loyalty are Principles a relationship of ANY kind are built upon.. A lifestyle relationship even MORE so.. They are NOT "buzzwords" to be thrown around to make a point, or emphasize a position..
I do not DEMAND respect, only those unworthy of earning do that.. But, on the SAME hand, do not accept DISRESPECT either.. Someone that shows that contempt is unworthy of ANY attention from Me.. NO, I am not judging, I am stating facts.. Anyone willing to approach Me is free to do so, I will even open the door.. But be warned, TRUTH is stronger than bluster or feelers..
Dom
03/11/26