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Submissive Cigar Service
In the world of BDSM, the dynamics of power exchange can extend beyond traditional roles. One fascinating aspect of this culture is the ritual of Submissive Cigar Service. Which combines the art of cigar enjoyment with elements of submission and service.
This is what I have found in all of my research. From videos, blogs, articles, and asking others that perform cigar service. I have adapted this list to what I will personally be doing.
Preparation
Before beginning a Submissive Cigar Service it is crucial to prepare both physically and mentally. This involves selecting the right environment. Dim lighting and comfortable seating can set the mood for both the Dominant and submissive. Consider using an area that allows for privacy, free from distractions.
Next is to select the cigars. Understanding the preferences of your Dominant is essential. Choose a selection that reflects their taste. This can range from mild to full bodied, or even flavored options. It might be beneficial to have a few different types on hand. Depending on what they might be in the mood for.
Setting the Atmosphere
Creating the right ambiance is key to enhancing the experience. Light some candles or use soft lighting to create warmth. Consider playing background music that aligns with the mood of the scene. Ensure the area is tidy and comfortable, as the overall setting contributes significantly to the enjoyment of the experience. Also maintain that the space is not overwhelming hot or cold. The temperature not being correct could ruin the experience entirely.
Proper Attire
Both the submissive and Dominant should dress appropriately for the occasion. The submissive might choose to wear something that showcases their willingness and availability. This could be lingerie for added sensuality or smart attire that signifies respect. The attire should make the submissive feel confident yet connected to their role of servitude.
The Offering
When its time to serve the cigar, approach your Dominant with confidence and poise. Maintain eye contact and present the cigar with both hands. This gesture signifies respect and dedication to service. The submissive should articulate their intentions, such as, “May I offer you this cigar?” This creates a respectful dialogue and signals readiness to fulfill their role.
Cutting and Lighting the Cigar
If your Dominant prefers, the submissive can offer to cut the cigar. Using a cutter, ensure precision for a clean cut, then present the cigar back to the Dominant. For lighting, use a quality butane torch. Not a normal lighter, as the taste can be affected. Allow the Dominant to light the cigar, signaling a moment of intimacy and trust.
Serving the Cigar
Once the cigar is lit the submissive can take on their role in serving. The act of attentively serving while remaining aware of the Dominant’s needs, is key to enhancing the experience.
Sit there holding an ashtray.
Cup your hands together to be the ashtray
Use your tongue in the shape of a bowl to use as an ashtray.
Hold the cigar for your Dominant when needed.
Perform a sensual dance for their entertainment if demanded.
Give a massage
Offer drink service as well
Become a foot stool
So many things can be done during this time. Adapt service to your personality and dynamic.
Engaging in Conversation
Throughout the experience engage your Dominant in pleasant conversation or simply allow them to enjoy the tranquility of smoking. The goal is to create a relaxing environment while being attentive to their cues. If your Dominant shares thoughts or wants to initiate conversation, respond appropriately while maintaining your role.
Concluding the Experience
As the cigar comes to an end the submissive should be ready to assist in extinguishing it thoughtfully. This final act of service reflects the culmination of the ritual and ensures the Dominant feels appreciated and respected.
By following these steps, you can create a memorable and enjoyable Submissive Cigar Service experience, enhancing not only the pleasure of smoking but also the dynamics of your relationship.
I’m not an expert, as I’m still in the process of learning how to be a Cigar Service Submissive. I recognize that this is a journey, and I’m committed to growing through practice and experience. As I continue to explore this dynamic, I will adapt and refine my approach, finding what works best for me while staying open to learning and evolving. It is all about personal growth, and I’m excited to see how I continue to develop in this role.
