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Under The Whip

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3 days ago. March 30, 2025 at 11:42 PM

How To Get An Instant Block


Disregarding my boundaries
Sending me unsolicited nudes
Hate Speech
Homophobia
Racism
Criminal Activity
Dishonesty
Bullying
Belittling my Masters, members of their House or just anyone in general.
Being rude
Supporting terrorism
Being in Victim Mentality.
Plus many other reasons.


Note: I do attempt depending on the severity about giving you one warning. After that I am no longer a polite person.



In today’s interconnected world, where communication often blurs personal boundaries, I feel it is essential to assert my stance on the types of relationships I want to cultivate. This is particularly relevant for my interactions within the kink and BDSM communities, yet applicable in any social situation.

 

I want to make it clear that when I engage with others, particularly in platonic relationships, it is on my terms. Some might assume that my Masters exert total control over how I interact with others, but that is a misunderstanding of our dynamic. My Masters do not dictate whom I speak to or what we discuss. Those decisions lie solely with me. They trust my judgment and respect my boundaries, and I expect that same respect from the individuals I choose to engage with.

 

Let us be explicit! I have no desire to delve into sexual conversations or engage in sexting with anyone. This includes discussions that are sexually explicit or involve sending unsolicited nudes. While I am open to exploring conversations about kinks and fetishes in a more generalized capacity, I am not interested in personal invitations or discussions that cross into explicit territory. My choice is rooted in maintaining healthy relationships that are grounded in emotional maturity and respect.

 

It is imperative to acknowledge that these boundaries are not merely preferences. They reinforce my autonomy and self respect. I am seeking platonic friendships based on mutual interests and respect, and it is crucial that anyone engaging with me understands and honors these limits. If you cannot adhere to my boundaries, then the opportunity to communicate with me is a privilege that will not be extended to you.

 

Furthermore, I find it deeply unsettling when people try to undermine my Masters in an attempt to garner favor with me. This behavior reeks of insecurity and cowardice. Insulting another person to elevate oneself is a blatant display of emotional immaturity. Not only does it reveal a lack of respect for the people you’re attempting to bond with, but it also demonstrates a fundamental misunderstanding of the type of relationships I value. My interactions are built on mutual respect, and disparaging others only highlights one’s weaknesses.

 

I advocate for creating connections that foster trust and understanding while maintaining clear boundaries. I am an independent individual, and anyone wishing to communicate with me must recognize that I hold the reins on that interaction. Keeping the discourse respectful and non sexual aligns with my personal values and helps sustain a positive atmosphere for friendship.

 

My decision to foster only platonic relationships comes from a place of self awareness and respect for both myself and others. If we are to connect, it will be based on shared interests and values, not lost in the chaos of sexual expectations. So, if you're looking to build a friendship with me, be prepared to respect my boundaries. This is the only way we can create a meaningful connection.


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