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venia​(sub female){notlooking} - ((Hugs)) my friend. I wish I could hold up a mirror for you to see the amazing person that you truly are. Those who truly love you will embrace the real you with open arms.

HGB​(sub female){Scottish M} - Someones image of you not being what you are is not letting them down. Are you sure they don't have any clue. I've heard so many say I came out to my family and they said well be knew that what took you so long. If your really unsure make a vague comment. Oh this guy at work just came out to his family about being gay or trans. See what there response is. If they are really against it yes keep to yourself for now. As for as the drag night bingo , go for the bingo. Say you heard it was a fun crowd for bingo, payouts were good. You know your truth. Those who judge do not need to know your truth.

Bunnie - OMG!!! That sounds sooooo fun! I would absolutely go with you lol. Just look at it as “normal” bingo, and go there to wipe the floor with them all and take their money hehe. Worry about “dressing up” later. Give yourself permission to just have some fun :) *hugs*

Thecharmedmuse​(switch female){My Wildman} - *hugs* You know what.. I bet you there are at least 10 others that feel just like you. I would certainly go with you. But think of the service you would show by going and being yourself to those 10 others... They could see that you are comfortable being yourself and now they can also be themselves. You can start a ripple effect.

MissBonnie​(dom female){oz} - if you cant bring yourself to go "just yet"...why not go just as it finishes. You can watch people leave, so you can see things like how many attend or how many go in drag. Maybe if you know what your up against, it might be easier to get the strength to walk in the door next time. Break it down down into small bites.

MissBonnie​(dom female){oz} - do'h hit the post to soon. ...if you know what up against, it will take out the fear (a little). Fear comes from the unknown.