The Goddess Gaze

All topics, discussions and think pieces related to the Domme/Goddess lifestyle and subs who worship them.

The Goddess Gaze: Intro

3 weeks ago. November 12, 2024 at 1:24 AM

What makes a Goddess?

A true Goddess can be spotted from a mile away. Her body, face, scent and aura simply pull you in. You feel the urge to speak to her… be close. You fantasize touching her perfect body. The Power she possesses over you leaves you weak.You want to be SEEN by her.

I am Devine Dani and this is my blog dedicated to Goddesses( Ebony Goddesses to the Front of the line) and the subs that worship them.

I have been in this lifestyle for 6+ years and one thing I will tell you is it is not for the weak! If you want subs to respect you, you must give them something to respect. I am a sensual Domme who enjoys physical touch but also has a low tolerance for bullshit. The only thing that is soft is my skin.

In the begining of my journey I struggled to find where I fit in the kink community. Being a woman of color, it is extremely important for me to represent for all the kinky Sistas of the world. I found my niche in being a DOMME.

I have been naturally dominant my entire life; I was born a leader. You are either beside me or behind me, but never in front of me. However, I struggled to find a balance in my vanilla relationship and my kinks behind closed doors. In my vanilla relationship, I attempted to give my partner the dominant role as a man. But it felt like something was missing.

Most of my kinks, involve pegging, face smothering, and discipline. I am very keen to Cuckold and cannot imagine Entertaining another relationship without it being accepted. In fact, I want my partner present in Chasity to play clean up afterwards. There is nothing that turns me on more than getting drilled as my partner patiently watches on his knees in the corners…. eagerly waiting to clean up the mess that my bull made.

Here on my blog this A safe place to discuss all things Goddess, Domme, and submissive related. I will be telling my personal stories and sharing my thoughts while posting a discussion question at the end of each entry. Feel free to ask questions, dive deeper into Discussion topics, and keep the convo going.

Discussion Question: When did you first realize you identify you were a Domme or sub?

Noir Fox(dom female) - Same. I have always been a leader and was interested in the lifestyle. So I met a friend who was Into the lifestyle and I tried to be sub but it was not working because it’s not in my make up to be in service to anyone. The first time I Stepped into a dominant roll it fit like a glove. Haven’t looked back since

3 weeks ago

DevineDani(dom female) - Love this for you! It just feels right to step into your power and accept it

3 weeks ago

FLR ChasteCuckold(sub male) - I’m pretty sure nothing feels better than being your true self. At the age of 21 I realised I am a submissive when I had a short fling with a sexually aggressive ( in a positive way) girl who cared mostly about her pleasure only. Ever since I adore assertive, self-confident and dominant women. However, I’ve always been ambitious and determined regarding my career. Not so much high roles or titles have mattered but self-accomplishment. So that means some sort of dominance was required to elbow my way through my life. When it comes to relationships i never had the luck to meet a dominant woman. Somehow only submissive and hard-core vanilla girls came my direction. I’m 48 now, married with, a perfect partner, mother that knows about my kinks and fetishes, and even tries to be dominant (which I highly value) but deep down she is submissive or, I’d say neutral and I am really struggling to submit all the time because in the dome/sub thermometer I’m am more dominant then she is. One might say I’m not really submissive. Not so. For me it is difficult when the so-called dominant is struggling with the role and it comes out forced and artificial. We both fee it and ….. oh well, such is life. I hope people find their true self and find the right match. Please keep posting, because your profile really speaks to me.

2 weeks ago

Noir Fox(dom female) - Absolutely! A lot of years passed and a lot of years ago

3 weeks ago

amalthea(sub female){Mr Gregory} - I love this. I have known for most of my life that I was submissive, however, I also knew I couldn't submit to anyone who didn't recognize my worth, strength, and my ability to survive without him. I always end up in a leadership position, usually because I'm a good diplomat, and tend to be honest while not crushing the others spirit. Although...there are times...

I found I am so good at giving others the space to be themselves that I would be weighed down and unable to be me. Ashamed of my desire to be "weak" or to let go of the power. I definitely went to an all or nothing thought process. It didn't help that most Doms tended to see me as an object only and, that did not fly. I appreciate and support my sisters. I find the beauty in embracing their sexuality. I don't like when we oppress each other...which seems to happen. Nah, I much rather support my sisters as we find our light and let it shine. I hope that makes sense.

I'm looking forward to reading your blogs and learning from you.

3 weeks ago

DevineDani(dom female) - This! Well aid. Mutual respect and trust is vital on both sides of a D/s dynamic. A sub must be 100% confident in their Dom in order to fully submit.
You make perfect sense. I am all about uplifting and bringing awareness to sexuality instead of judging.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts ❤️

2 weeks ago

naughtylittleboy(sub male) - It took many years for me to realize I'm a true submissive and beta male, as I'm very athletic, and have been involved in sports at a high level most of my life. The ego's and machismo traits that are not only encouraged, but expected in this realm were so deeply ingrained in myself that it was difficult to truly understand myself.

In the bedroom, I craved letting go, and began finding that my kinks were aligned with those of a submissive. However, outside the bedroom I continue(d?) to live a lie. It wasn't until I began realizing that 90% of my real-life issues I had with other men and women were because I was trying to act like an alpha instead of fully understanding myself, and allowing others to take the lead.

I came to understand, that it is often this lack of understanding of who you truly are that can lead to toxic masculinity traits. Real, authentic Alpha's do not 'act', or put on airs. They lead naturally through respect, and consistency. When a submissive knowingly, or not, pretends to be something they are not, it leads to unacceptable behaviors like butting-heads with others.

I'm just now trying to fully embrace who I am and not only be okay with that, but lean into it and become the best version of myself. I am finally ready to be lead completely, using my talents to support a true leader.

2 weeks ago

DevineDani(dom female) - This isnt talked about enough in the kink community. How a lot of Alpha men crave submissive but are grappling with the responsibilities and role of a leader that is forced onto them usually at a very young age. Thank you for sharing and congratulations on finally being able to walk in your truth. I have no doubt you have found your place here. Welcome and be sure to check out my blog entry just posted 🖤

2 weeks ago

naughtylittleboy(sub male) - Thank you! I will check out your new post now!

2 weeks ago

I'mME - @naughtylittleboy
Do not pigeon hole subs.. words like beta, 'true' submissive, and many subs are leaders.

2 weeks ago

DevineDani(dom female) - You don’t like what I said go ahead and hit that block button

2 weeks ago

I'mME - Who, Me?

2 weeks ago

DevineDani(dom female) - Keep it cute here and don’t tell me what to do with my mouth.

2 weeks ago

Steellover(sub male) - I hope it's not too late to respond to this older post; I just discovered your blog.

So briefly, I was always raised to believe that it is best to treat everyone with respect and chivalry, to always be a gentleman, and that it is better to give than receive, and this, coupled with my admiration for strong, assertive women and my own rather shyness around women, has always fed into my submissive feelings. Basically- In order to please, I need to be told HOW to please, and the best way to do so is by being submissive.

Plus, over the years I have discovered these intense feelings that come with kink and BDSM and submitting to women that I never had when I was young. I won't go into detail here but the basic activities, some of which you describe above, send me into an intense sub space that is indescribably blissful.

1 week ago

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