I’m always get asked what it’s like dating in Atlanta.
Well… it’s interesting to say the least. Even navigating dating in the vanilla realm can be crazy. You add trying to date while incorporating your kinks and it becomes a real $h!t Show starring me ⭐️.
To be fair, as a bisexual woman who doesn’t shy away from her sexuality Atlanta is ideally the perfect place to meet like minded individuals. We have plenty of kink mixers and underground taboo clubs that are perfect for having a good time and meeting a potential partner.
( Tokyo Valentino. If you know, you know)
But if I’m being honest what I truly desire the most is a FLR( Female Lead Relationship). And while I have met plenty of potential candidates both online and in person, I have yet to feel the spark in the vanilla department. It’s important to note that I am not looking for a traditional Monogamous Relationship by any means. I have known for a while that I get off the most by being a cuckoldress. That is what I seek and I am 100% upfront about it from the get go.
For example, a few weeks ago I met up with a guy I had be communicating with for about 2 weeks who also was looking for an FLR. He expressed that he was also into cuckold and wanted a partner that had her fun while he watched locked in chastity. I thought “ This is perfect” because I am looking for the same. He also had experience in his last relationship with similar dynamics.
We shared similar Vanilla interests like cooking, dancing, and traveling. The physical attraction was there and needless to say I was excited to meet and test the compatibility.
I made the dinner date plans for 8pm- A sexy rooftop restaurant lounge with great food and drinks. Not too loud with an intimate vibe. I dressed in Mid length black dress, black heels and gold accessories. Classy sleek and sensual is the vibe I was going for.
He showed up 5 mins after I did ( on time)and I loved his style. Dress shirt, black jeans and suede loafers. We complimented each other well. The man was fine okay. FINE.
We greeted each other and embraced with a quick hug. Im thinking we’re off to a great start. The waitress comes and I ordered our drinks for both of us. We had previously discussed roles and what a FLR looked like for both of us, with him taking a backseat and letting me make the decisions. So this was no surprise to him nor was it rude.
We’re chit chatting about our day but the conversation was flat. I tried sparking new discussions and asking questions to get him to open up a bit but in person his personality just wasn’t shinning through as much. And I’m a personality type of woman. You need to have a sense of humor, some wit and be able to hold a conversation for me to fall in love lol.
There were times where there was awkward silence in the middle of dinner where I was thinking of what topic to bring up next. I thought maybe he’s just timid because we just met although he initially presented himself to be an Alpha Sub. Either way the evening did not pan out the way I anticipated and I was left feeling a little lackluster and unfulfilled.
Now here’s where things went really left. The check comes, he pays and asks
” so when do I get to watch you get fucked” .
This caught me by surprise, but I am a woman that will always attempt to take the high road before I mouth off. I said “ Never.” Grabbed my purse and got the hell out of there. On my way home I was thinking about what in his mind convinced him that this date would end with that kind of night cap. All in all I was bored half to death on the date so I wasn’t too upset by the question lol. It was probably the most interesting thing he had said all night.
And so the Quest continues…
let me know if you guys want me to continue my dating in Atlanta chronicles and keep you updated.
What are your non negotiables in a potential partner and while dating?
