Oh this weather is glorious, people smile more, you want to get naked more and just be naughty 😈
And as I sit here with a cool alcoholic drink I am pondering the question that I have been asked a lot this week, that of ‘how long have you been a domme?’ When I hear this question I feel like I should have attended a domme school or training course. Sorry folks, if there is a school with a certificate I was supposed to attend, I will disappoint you and say I didn’t. If the questions are; how long have you known you were a domme? How long have you been a strong woman? How long have you known what you want? How long have you owned who you are? Now those are different questions and ones worth asking and discussing.
I, like any beautiful rose with sharp thorns, have grown and learnt, known struggles and pain. I have grown into myself, accepted myself, my sexuality, the way I want to love and live and my likes and dislikes. Being a domme is part of me, it is not something I have been taught, or just become. Have I made mistakes? Of course. Do I continue to learn? Of course. Do I question how long you have been a sub or you have been a dom/me? No, as if you are a submissive or a dom/me or both, then you have not just become, you are. You have grown, you have accepted and you want to continue to experience and learn.
Are you new to your journey, then welcome, are you further on your travels, welcome to you too, what learnings can we share? Let us travel down our various paths and at the different intersections respectfully converse, have some fun (if both consent) and see where we go from there.
In the meantime I will continue enjoying this glorious heat and a cheeky drink or two.