I was drawn to his charismatic writing. He seemed witty and his words could form a picture of the scene in my head. I began liking his posts and finally emailed him about one of them that was of particular interest to me. We became almost inseparable from the beginning. From the moment we woke, till we went to bed, we messaged and texted.
I asked him to send me a picture of him putting his pinky finger in his left ear and I gave him 5 minutes to do it. He thought I was crazy but did it, I sent him a silly picture too and he started calling me his Funny Face. That became my nickname and we sent silly faces to each other daily through the whole dynamic.
We were sponges about each other's information. I knew him like the back of my hand, as he knew me. We set up routines and tasks and shared files. We had music playlists and so many ways of being connected. We blogged about our dynamic and about each other. We were so happy for a long time and were not afraid to tell everyone.
We had no secrets from each other. He knew who my friends were and we told each other who we talked to. We laughed when he got hit on by a sub that really wasn’t so much of a friend to me any more. He told me that he turned her down and that he blocked her. I believed him of course, because why wouldn’t I? Life went on.
It’s funny how the truth always has a way of surfacing, and it always does. This sub began to send me screenshots of their conversations after he had “blocked” her. Not only had he not blocked her, but he had begun playing with her and using her Lush, one time being moments before he told me good night and that he loved me.
He didn’t deny it, but he didn’t really apologize either. I think that he was stunned that he had gotten caught. His only real excuse was that he was trying to show me that this sub was not my friend and just how far she would go to hurt me. For the record, in case anyone is worried, I was never concerned about her hurting me or if she was truly my friend any more. She never crossed my mind.
Lessons learned from Max:
1 A stroked ego on a weak man can cause problems.
2 Not everyone is your friend and not all “friends” can be trusted.
3 Is an online relationship really worth it? So much can be hidden and lied about.
4 Words and actions don’t always match up.
