Time seems to have slowed as my anticipation builds.
You will be here tomorrow!!
This time tomorrow, You will be in the air on your way to me!!!!
If time is to slow, then I hope it remains that way for the next 11 days as well.
Tomorrow I will be in your arms. I will cherish every moment we are together.
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The countdown started awhile back, but today ... it's Five!!! 5!!! V!!!
Five days ... my Daddy will be here!!!
As the count gets lower ... I have this guy in my head!!
So excited!!
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We are into the single digits until Daddy arrives!!! 9 days ...
9 days until he steps off that plane and I will be in his arms.
The excitement that has been patiently waiting (okay .. maybe not so patiently 😜) has just grown expenentially!! Almost unbearable for the little in me, sensually stimulating for the romantic part of me, and ohhh so excited for the kinky part of me!
The countdown begins!
Mmmm .. the thoughts going through my mind 😏😏😏
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What do the roles mean? How do you find the right person for you? What's the nature of your dynamic going to be? IF this is something that you truly feel you want for your life then give yourself the benefit of doing research. Read! I am a firm believer that knowledge is power. The more you know, the better decisions you can make for yourself.
There are some great books to help you learn more and help understand yourself. Before you even begin to start "living the lifestyle" do your due diligence. You owe that to yourself. And research both dynamics so you have at least the basic understanding of what both Domimant and submissive mean at their core. What are the core characteristics and expectations of a Dom? Submissive? Once you've done some research, start talking to other people...both Doms and subs alike.
Take EVERYTHING with a grain of salt. Even with those you agree with and relate to!! Everyone is different and we all react differently based on our experiences.
BUT for goodness sake .. when seeking advice.. make sure you're seeking advice from people with some experience and maturity in the life, NOT from someone who is new ... who is still trying to figure it out for themselves as well. Wisdom grows from experience.
Even reading books and articles cannot prepare you for taking that first step to actively pursuing this life. It is overwhelming, exciting, intoxicating, scary as hell ... and most definitely will be NOTHING like you expected. Seek out people who have actually been living it for some time... NOT someone who has just started a few weeks into it. Some may appear to have it together and know what they're talking about. It's pretty easy to copy and paste into a blog as to what to expect in a dynamic.
The best way to figure out if those people have true integrity????
Take the time to OBSERVE!! Watch, quietly ... how do they interact with others? Are they respectful of people, whether they agree with them or not? Or do they flex their muscles? Puff up and beat on their chests to prove they are superior? (both Dom and subs do this)
Are they overbearing with people ... "that need to put in their place" ? Do they bounce from one Dom (or sub) to another? Do they seem to shout from their blogs or comments "I am an authoritarian about this ... you should listen to me!"
Take the time to know the people you wish to surround yourself with.
Doms and subs alike ... give yourself some real time to learn about someone new that you may be interested in. TAKE TIME to know they are a good match for you and will be a strength in the dynamic.
In my life, I've come to learn it is not the ones who feel the need to shout their opinions to be the ones to listen to. No, I have found the ones who are quiet, respectful of all, to be the best mentors, teachers, confidants.
What is a Dom?
When a submissive gives up control, you are choosing (it is ALWAYS your choice) to give your Daddy/Sir/Master/Domme total control, within your agreed limits.
KNOW who you are submitting to and what their expectations are based on the kind of Dom they are. If you are in RL, be careful .. you are the one taking all the physical risks!! BE PICKY!!
Ask questions. Is this Dom a Master? A Daddy? Sir? Monogamous? Poly? Does He have other subs? Is he looking for exclusivity? Are you? Take the time to learn all His kinks. Make sure they fall within your kinks and desires.
Take your time for all of the questions and soooo many more! And guess what?? It takes more than just a few days or a week to learn all this. Don't rush into something, be collared only to discover you weren't a good match from the start. I see so many new subs collared within days, a week ... then uncollared, and collared again. You do not have to be collared while searching for the one who is a good match for you. Learn about yourself before you get to that point.
Again, the control you give up is your choice. But the true essence of that total power exchange is you ARE giving another person control over you! Your mind and your body.
Be willing to take the time to learn more about the person you are going to give that control to.
Good luck in your journey ... even if you don't think that's what it is ... you will discover ... it truly is.
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The stars were aligned that night … the night you sent me a message to say hello .. there was grace in the air.
Just about to sign off .. I heard that little ping. That little sound that says “You’ve got mail”
I could have been a minute quicker, and you never would have crossed my path that night. It was late and I wasn’t wanting to talk with anyone. For some unknown reason, I read your message and answered back.
It unfolded so naturally … so unexpected.
When it seems love is hard to find and you're not looking, that's when it comes along, softly, quietly settling into the heart.
Because you can be hurt by love, or healed by the same.
Just at the right time.
Timing is everything.
I remember that night … the hours we spent talking, until the sun came up. Neither of us wanting to stop.
Time seemed to stand still.
Just a few short hours later, we found our way back to each other again. Wanting to know more.
You wanted to know my name.
Timing is everything.
You can call it fate, or destiny. Sometimes it really seems like a mystery.
In you, I have found myself. You have embraced all of me and have helped me embrace and love all of the different facets that are me … beautifully complicated, yet so simple.
Like the post I’ve seen … you didn’t simply look at me .. you looked into me, and saw me. Where others saw darkness, you saw light.
You have drawn that light out and it shines so brightly like never before.
I am whole because of your acceptance and love. I am secure in me because of you.
Thank you Daddy.
Timing is everything.
Lil k
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not telling you when.. but yeah 😏😏
Hope everyone is having a sexy, happy day!
Pretty much ... all the time 😏😏
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Mmmhmm ... yup
I LOVE our morning routine Daddy! Isn't this everyone's?? 😏😏😏
