A letter to the Submissives, from a fellow sub
(Not intended for the insta subs)
Dear Submissive ones,
Whether you are the slave,the little, the brat, the toy , the pet, the traditional one this is for you (probably some others I missed)
Love yourself, we must truly love ourselves before we can give ourselves away. Be yourself. Don’t act like something or someone you are not. Your Dom wants to love you. Don’t hide yourself, show who you are, your Dom wants to see you. Admit your faults, yea that’s a hard one but a very important one. When your Dom sees you admit them and not pass it off, that shows a self worth.
Be proud of who you are. Take pride in how far you have come. Look back at your growth. We all have started somewhere. We all have a past. Embrace who you are, love yourself. Submission is not becoming someone else, it’s about becoming who you are meant to be. Speak up no matter how much it hurts. When you speak up, you open up and you become more.
Submit to yourself first. Know every corner of your mind, know what your heart says and reveal it. Listen to your soul. Know that you cannot be fixed by anyone but yourself.
Know that you must make your laws and follow them. Have rules for yourself is a good thing. It shows you that you are worthy of respect from yourself and then that expands to those around you. If you stand with those laws and fiercely enforce them, others will notice and not try to make you cross them. Set yourself for success, write it out. Study it. Know it. Be it.
Some of us have walked through struggle, not some of us I’d say ALL OF US! . It’s not a competition of who had it worse. Your struggle is yours and that’s all that matters. I’ve been struggling so hard,but I need and must get out of the victim mentality. So I have to embrace that. You need to embrace yours. It’s ok.
Enjoy things you like to do. Be 100% you. If you like to read, then read. If you dance, then you dance. Find your passion and enjoy it. It’s a part of who you are. Do not play games with yourself or against others
We want to serve our Doms to our best abilities, correct? The answer should be yes! So how do we serve our Doms? We become the best of who we are as an individual. We become a single whole person with passions, pain, depth, boundaries and virtues. Then we can serve to our best ability
So learn who you are, love who you are, set your laws. Learn and then serve.
Sincerely,
A submissive