Name' sake

Woke with wood 😁

I do get horny sometimes but it comes in spurts.

What 🤨

Theres something in the air of late, yes?

I feel these ebbs and flo's of energy, I believe I always have - just never knew what it was. A happy wave will sweep through, then the tide goes back out again. One thing ive been noticing is the cycles are getting quicker, shorter. Or perhaps my perception of time has changed, I dont know.

The stoic lives in the center - (most of the time)

Can you pass the sugar? Thank you . . . 

Happy freeking Saturday peeps!  👋🙂 ☕

Sunrise marks the day

The covenant was betrayed.

Stay slayer stay,

For now your bed has been made.

I wish for you only hallowed halls,

Nary a mind for the blood stained walls.

Silver pittance surely must be due,

For the precious life you once knew.

I do not envy the price youve paid,

Or the shallows of your deserv'ed grave.

Now, my heart goes out to all you lovely creatures that suffer the visit from "Aunt flo"

butt ☝️

My Daddy always taught me, he said "son, stay away from anything that can bleed for five days and still live"  🤔

Ha . . . Ha . . . Ha  😑

Ive had my share of dealings with this subject over the years, ranging from "oops, I guess its started" to "call a priest!" Full blown head spinning 360° and curses ive never even heard of before.

Its a fact of life. Gotta deal with it, right?

(Im speaking on hetero-sexual, boy/girl - I mean no offense to anyone outside this perameter)

(well, I suppose girl/girl too, right? 😏)

I try and always keep tabs on my girls' cycle. For obvious health reasons, and the almighty mood swings! 😮‍💨

A simple word of advice to younger men entering into the arena of big bad "I got this!" Doms - keep your womans cycle in the foreground of your mind - be aware, be a part, be involved. 🙏

And another, thank you all, you amazing peeps - who participated in my theme song challenge, wow! 🙏

For a dear one who's voice is being silenced

🙏😔

If I could change one thing about this planet -

it would be . . . 

HIGH WINDS!

omg the bane of my existence!

currently experiencing high winds - mind you, the back quarter of my roof is only protected by a large tarp 😑

As a child gusting winds scared me 

As an adult, high winds cost me so much in insurance loss and pay outs due to damaged property I was working on at the time.

High winds spred viruses and pathogens and allergens and and and - probably cheating spouses.

I could go on! 😠

Butt ☝️

I'll digress

So yeah, if you could change one thing about this planet, what would it be? Why?

Good morning peeps 👋🙂

I would like to thank you all, who participated in my challenge, wow! That was awsome! 👍

Alot of story telling in there, eh?

Sorry I wasnt around as it was going on - The weather was coming and I wasnt quick enough and fell under it 😮‍💨

So at that last camping trip I went on (recent video)

After guy and son left, it was very quiet. Didnt see another soul the rest of the day or the following day for that matter.

Butt ☝️

That afternoon, I had to um . . . .well, you know - and remember, theres no longer a porta-potty there 🙄

So I went off the side of my van into what used to be the edge of the tree line and dropped trou . . .

Anyone here NOT familiar with murphys law?

yeah . . . .

A cable guy! Of all things, a damn cable guy!

mid process, I "ran" back to my van as quickly as I could. 

(details skipped intentionally)

He slowly drove the circle and back out, never to be seen again.

I finished what I had started and looked up to the sky with a "ha ha ha! Very fucking funny!"

There was a time in my life this scene would have angered me "curse my bad luck!". I would have shaken my fist at the heavens.

My life has been riddled with these "what are the odds!?" happenings.

Ive since learned a valuable lesson on life.

Never go camping 😑

Also, the universe, what I call "Great Spirit" has a sense of humor.

Ive also been blessed with many "what are the odds!?" Good things in my life since I realized what the universe was trying to show me 

😌

🙏

"This too shall pass"

Got a "what are the odds" story you care to share?

(seems to be open alot lately 🤔)

So I was getting my weekly massage, she had been coming to my house for a couple of months by this point - We were very comfortable with each other. She was always polite and professional, and I was always naked 😏

She was, I would guess, mid 30s - cute in a cute way. And strictly business, it wasnt "that" kind of massage.

Anyway, a curious thing happened on this particular visit. She was working a certain area on me and I reacted.(Trying to think how to explain how I reacted 🤔)  I tensed? A heavy inhale - The curious part was, she saw this and stayed on that spot. Something she had never done before. My reactions got more intense and she just kept going.

I was inbetween laying on my side, and on my stomach, bottom leg straight, top leg bent and she was working the upper, inner thigh of my bottom leg (you can picture what im talking about, right?)

I didnt get hard - like I said, it was never meant to be "that" kind of a massage. She was always very professional. But no matter how intense my reactions got, she just kept going - staying rythmically in that one spot. I think she was trying to see what would happen. I started panting, trembling, grinding into the table - I even let out a "oh god!" She just kept going. I slipped into what I guess youd call a panic attack. I started shaking almost uncontrollably and hyper-ventilating. 

She helped me sit up, calmed me down and got me a glass of water. After a few minutes of calming and making sure I was ok, she said "I think we better stop here for today". And didnt mention what had happened.

Ive never experienced anything like that in my life, before or since. This was around 10 years ago. The last time she came to my house, (due to unrelated circumstances).

Over stimulated erogenous zone in a setting where release is not possible or expected.

Wow what a rush!!!! 😮‍💨

Happy second Sunday peeps 👋🙂☕

Like this blog or I will punch/spank you!

Or maybe both, I mean, no judgement, maybe thats your thing 🤔

Im down 😏

This has been the theme song of my life

People have asked me why I dont list any "do's and dont's" in my profile, my hard limits, etc.

Ok, allow me to post them here in a blog.

I would say the usual stuff, ya know -

No minors

No animals

Nothing illegal - (no binding, no restraining of any kind, no striking with any objects of any kind, no cutting, no burning with any objects including but not limited to candle wax, no blindfolding, no gagging, no restraining of natural bodily functions in any way, no hair pulling, no pinching, no slapping, no agressive sex, no constricting of anyones personal liberties, . . . and no anal)

You get my point . . . . 🙄

It isnt about consent, its about trust - and a whole giant boatload of it!! One might even say a fools share of it.

Ive had my kink play used against me in court, not once, but twice. Female judges both times (cant tell me that makes no difference)

I dont know if ill get alot of response from this post, or maybe no response, lol

People saying to themselves "nuh uh, aint touch'n that one!"

But you know what im saying, dont you?

Theres no question to be asked here, no final take away - just a point

Theres not even a possibilty to have current laws amended so under the right conditions such activities could be safe to endulge in.

Fuck it! Im getting a cat (one that likes to scratch and be scratched! 😏)

When one of the girls youve been mentoring finally gets it, and she says "omg, I get it! I understand now!"

Its like the vail is finally pulled back and the glorious light shines through.

You witness her blossom, and are flooded with pride and joy.

It is transforming for both.

"kintsugi" beauty in the broken, right?

This is what we mentors wish to accomplish, and it is so amazing when we do 😌🙏