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2 years ago. November 12, 2021 at 12:23 PM

Of the sexual variety. 

Some can relate more than others.

I see subjects and topics and tears and tears (those really should be spelled differently - to cry or to rip something in two)

As ive stated before, I analyze things alot.

Human behavior mostly.

How much of what we do is simply trying to release sexual tension? How much is a longing for our missing hearts desire? Could they be one in the same?

Single people that play alone, or people that play with someone because they have no one else, people that arent able to play, etc, etc. 

Rope play, sensation play, pain . . . 

 

I have always had a rather high sex drive - and most, if not all the 'experts' I have followed on self help say sex is a basic human need. (Enter . . . 'tension').

Its been awhile . . . 

Do you find relief after you have played alone? - or with someone that isnt your mate?

Or does it just leave you wanting?

Maybe if I do that harder? Or try adding this?

Or or or or . . . . 

 

I long for love, as we all do ~

 But as the months turn into years  . . .

"Oh the things I would do to her! . . . or her . . . . or her . . . . or them"

The birthplace of primal.

 

Or do we just ignore the dirty thoughts?

 

"Hush you!"

 

 

 

 

#woke up with wood

HurtSoGood - Thought provoking.... I'm gonna need to come back to this later when my brain is more alert.
2 years ago
Jack in the box -
Please do. ☺⚘
2 years ago
shysweetness​(sub female) - I agree...definitely thought provoking. It has my mind going round and round in circles now. That's fun.

Insatiable is a word that comes to mind when thinking of my own sex drive. Maybe it would be different if I was with my one...my love, my soul mate, twin flame etc.

But, just because your body is satisfied doesn't mean your heart, mind and soul are satisfied...does it?

An epic full body orgasm does seem to make my world a better place though...at least for a little while 😉

I think in my own case, play, sex, etc with someone not my mate would make me yearn all the harder for my mate. My body may be satisfied but that would probably be the only part of me that was.

Okay, that's my rambling thoughts about that.

2 years ago
Jack in the box -
Thank you so much for sharing that ☺⚘
These are similar thoughts/feelings to my own. This . . . ."quest"
2 years ago
GiannaRay​(sub female) - I feed off of the other person so alone my sex drive is lower then when I’m talking to/getting to know or I’m involved with someone. But some days are still just one of those days lol.
2 years ago
Jack in the box -
I hear ya Ms G ☺
Thank you for sharing. ⚘
2 years ago
A Cloud​(sub female){Owned} - For me, there is satisfaction in playing alone or with a compatible play partner, albeit not to the extent of what a strong dynamic can provide. It very much depends on the mental state that is brought to the table. It works if the focus is on exploration, pleasure and loving yourself rather than the desire to have the mind-blowing experiences of a strong, loving and connected dynamic. It's hard to fully express what I mean but I hope it made some sense.
2 years ago
Jack in the box -
It makes perfect sense Ms Betty, thank you for sharing ☺⚘
" . . .the mental state that is brought to the table" - indeed.

It was hard for me to express what I was getting at - probably due to too much tension. Lol
2 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - "Roses are Red
Your balls are blue

Stop jerking off to
What's only a dream to you"

Sorry, but saw all your rhyming and couldn't help myself 🤣

We all have needs. Some are fine with having another fill a "temporary" void. Never being truly satiated.

That's what it comes down to, no?
Regardless of the how or who?
It's all about...
Being satiated.. Or insatiable...
2 years ago
Jack in the box -
Past blue weeks ago,
Bout to go put um in the snow.
😏
Filling a void, yes.
Even a vow of celibacy is attempting to fill a void, is it not?
Or become the void. 🤔

Thank you for sharing Ms Morley ☺⚘
2 years ago
A Cloud​(sub female){Owned} - I agree about the void. But I also believe the way to fill that void is to accept and love oneself in totality. People are not mere temporary fillers for me while I wait/search for 'The One'. Relationships are complex and varied and fulfill different needs and desires. That doesn't mean they are less quality or do not 'satiate'. And I do not settle because I am lonely (quite the opposite now). That's what I used to do when I did not value myself. Now, I have chosen to be alone and am content with myself - totally satiated, perhaps not so much sexually, but definitely emotionally and socially. ✌️
2 years ago
Jack in the box -
Thank you Ms Betty ☺
I agree with you "relationships are complex" - I also feel every union of 2 (or more) is a relationship.
I suppose what got me to this blog was . . . .
When someone cant (or shouldnt)
just go out and "get laid" (tension) - they are left to masturbating, right? I used an analogy in a conversation I had recently. We all need to eat - lets say a 5 course dinner was equal to the most mind blowing sexual experience you've ever had. Masturbating is a baloney sandwich (stay with me here, lol)
Still need to eat . . . Ok, lets put some mustard on it . . . How bout salt and pepper . . . Its still just a baloney sandwich.
This dilemma is particularly daunting in a long distance relationship where all you have is masturbating.
2 years ago
A Cloud​(sub female){Owned} - I like your analogy but my masturbation is more than a baloney sandwich (spam, spam, spam, spam - but I don't like spam!). It's more like a gourmet baguette 🤣. Mind you, I do have a variety of quality ingredients 😉.
2 years ago
Jack in the box - 😊
2 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Ohhh I HATE canned spam!! Meat? I want fresh . . . If possible..… hehehe 😜
2 years ago

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