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1 year ago. February 9, 2024 at 7:49 AM

Show of hands, how many people talk to themselves? ?

You have the occassional muttering something here and there, all the way up to the full-blown conversationalists, like one of my ex's from years ago - She would talk to herself more than she talked to me, lol 

Unnerving at first, but it became cute ?

So anyway, something is going on on the tv and you blurt out "oh thats bullshit!" , right? 

 

Who are you talking to?

 

Not all of your thoughts are spoken outloud - my god, they'd lock up the whole world if that were the case - but the more important thoughts are spoken outloud - why?    And again, to who?

 

There is power in the spoken word, I truly believe that.

There are a plethora (I like that word too ?) of studies, and teachings, and books, etc - on positive affirmations, and the like - using the spoken word to calm the unspoken inner mind.

 

Ok, now - hear me out ☝️  (pun intended)

Suppose . . . Just suppose - the two talked to each other? ?

 

TGIF (to those of you that that matters ?)

Happy Friday peeps ??

Valore - I also agree that there's a certain power to speaking things.
I've heard it called many this like speaking things into existence.
Personally... people can take things way too far... make it more than it really is and or become some rigid stick in the mud.
There's truth in everything but not everything is the truth and I'm a firm believer in this, so I combine that with literally everything I come in contact with... like this.

There is... without a doubt... power in words.
Spoken, not spoken, etc..
Maybe speaking it helps recalibrate the brain into centering its focus subconsciously on the spoken word, because it uses multiple learning techniques... kinesthetic, auditory... and good Ole repetition.
Training a frame of mind or changing the perspective into looking at a glass half empty or half full... as a solo player, it may just stop there and not actually alter the facts, just our way of seeing them, but action put into that... can motivate us to do more and feel progress...because we aren't focusing on what can't be ...and instead on what can be. 101 problem solving.
I'm sure there's a lot we can dig up from this topic, but I wanted to comment on this small section here whilst avoiding an essay lol.
1 year ago
Jack in the box -
Did you really just say that outloud!?? ?
?
A wise young lady indeed Ms Valore ??
I do greatly appreciate your input, as im sure others will as well, thank you ??

Here's my line of thinking - I try to avoid it whenever possible ?
But seriously - me, and my mind, are not/should not be seperate entities.
Just this morning I spoke something outloud, and my 'mind' thought "now why did I say that outloud? ?
Then 'I' said "I dont know, why dont the two of you talk about it and figure it out"
Thus, a blog was born - twins, boy and a girl!!! ????
1 year ago
Valore - Me, myself, and I have a lovely conference table where frequent heated debates often lead to internal warfare until one or all of us win or group together. Lol.
It's very healthy!
Hard to get lonely when you have your own company too.
Too much of anything isn't good for you, my aunt used to say.

Twins!!!!!!!!! Double trouble!
1 year ago
Jack in the box -
Conscious mind = Dom
(The one that speaks outloud)
subconscious mind = sub
(the one that bounces to and fro)

Doms! Control your damn subs!!

?

*not directed at you Ms Valore - this just came to me so I plopped it here
1 year ago
Oliver Void​(dom male) - Dual Process Theory
1 year ago
Jack in the box -
You are familiar?
1 year ago
Oliver Void​(dom male) - Reframing Coping what is -- is; all about perspective. :)
1 year ago
Jack in the box -
Not really sure how to respond to that Mr Oliver, lol - but yes indeed, life in and of itself comes down to perspective, yes?
1 year ago
Valore - A running joke!
"I hate the cold"
Be more positive!
"I'm positive I hate the cold"

Could take it a turn further and think in depth instead of witty clever joking..
To assert a decision into its more definitive and become decisive, is to avoid indecision or otherwise doubt.
To eliminate doubt, is to be confident. Confidence leads to success.

?
1 year ago
Jack in the box -
I welcome global warming!!

too soon? ?

Ya know, im hung over - you guys are hurting my brain ??
1 year ago
Valore - The good or bad hurt? I'll continue if it's the former?
1 year ago
Jack in the box -
Is there a bad hurt? ?
1 year ago
Valore - ? not if I can help it
1 year ago
The Kinky Poet​(other male) - My dad used to say you should always speak to yourself if you want a expert opinion lol
Great read Jack
Love and light T.K.P
1 year ago
Jack in the box -
A wise man indeed ?
Thank you my friend, I hope you are having a great day ?☕
1 year ago
Ingénue​{VK} - Huh? Constantly, unless there's anything demanding or interesting happening.
1 year ago
vv V vv​(sadist male) - When surrounded by fools the only intelligent conversation to be had is with myself
1 year ago
Jack in the box -
We will take that as a compliment then, and so thank you ?
Lol
But a great statement indeed my friend, yes
?
1 year ago
vv V vv​(sadist male) - Was in no way speaking ill of the fine people here. I was having a flashback of yesterday when surrounded by 16 year old skinny jean wearing, don’t want to get dirty, hive minded, engineers who don’t know the difference between blunt and being mean.
1 year ago
Jack in the box -
Oh I know, I meant you are 'conversing' here with us so you must not find us to be fools - thus, a compliment
S'all good ?
And totally relate clean hive kids ?
1 year ago
vv V vv​(sadist male) - Wait what? What are all of you doing in my head please evacuate in an orderly fashion and don’t forget your gift bag.
1 year ago
Jack in the box - Lol ?
1 year ago
decadentEssence​(sub female) - They used to say, talking to yourself is fine...but if you get a reply, then worry.
? Jack your fkd! Just blame the hangover, your fine ?
1 year ago
Jack in the box -
Get out of me free card?
yaaaayy
?
?
1 year ago
vv V vv​(sadist male) - Oh good I’m safe my dog is the only one that replies when I talk to myself.
1 year ago
decadentEssence​(sub female) - But what the dog says back, makes a hell of a difference! You may not be safe ?
1 year ago
Sir Don​(dom male) - So as I sat reading this, I was having a conversation with. Let's say with my coffee cup, the only thing the cup said back " NOT BEFORE MY COFFEE. " now I have to another conversation. Damn I hate when that happens
1 year ago
Jack in the box -
Lol, good morning my friend, hope you get it sorted out ?☕
1 year ago
Sir Don​(dom male) - Travel day be home later today
1 year ago
Angel Wings​(sub female) - I talk to myself to wok through something. I value my opinion...lol.
1 year ago
Jack in the box -
Ya know, at the end of the day, thats all that matters Ms Angel ???
1 year ago

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