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1 year ago. September 23, 2022 at 12:40 AM

I recieved an email from a good friend and organizer about a communication that they recieved. 

The person stated that they are aware of someone who has returned to the community who has a history of consent violations and bad behavior...  ect...

 

My friend organizes a munch and parties and has asked what I think. 

 

As a long time organizer I  have dealt with this before and here are my guidelines:

 

1) if this person shows to my parties and breaks my rules they are dealt with accordingly. 

 

2) my job is to manage my space for a limited time and not to police the community. 

 

3) although I  would love to believe the person bringing this information forward, people are not always honest and sometimes come with alternative motives. 

 

Because my community is small- one half is the other halves exes-  I do not take sides. Nor do I interfere in interpersonal spats. 

 

My welcome list is heavily regulated. 

I am cultivating a certain demographic and people that tend to do those things do not feel comfortable for long in my space. That is intentional. 

ButterfliesAndCuffs​(sub female) - While I understand not wanting to take sides, you actually are taking a side by not believing what your friend told you. Is a consent violation a nice way of saying sexual assault?
1 year ago
MasterBear​(other butch) - The person that contacted my friend is not their friend. Its a community member. And no- consent violation is not automatically sexual assault.
1 year ago
ButterfliesAndCuffs​(sub female) - I see I misunderstood. Thanks for clarifying. 😊
1 year ago

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