Recently I responded to a post here in forums about a D type that had "broken" their s type and was now looking for suggestions.
When the D type is completely vested in the breaking, when the breaking is the fantasy--- the post breaking is not as exciting and the D type will inevitably loose interest.
If the D type is more vested in the process of breaking than the outcome the result is disengagement.
In my opinion s types are more than just a series of holes.
s types have amazing talents, intrerests, and abilities that can be experienced by their D types. Cutting an s type off from their abilities is like a D type cutting off their nose to spite their face.
A D type that understands that there are places where the s type is smarter then them and utilizes that talent is only better for it.
When an s type flourishes- the D type makes out like a bandit.
It is a point of pride for me as a Master that My slave has has so many abilities.
It is my job as a Master to push her into being a better, stronger, and more self actualized person.
It is the difference between owning a TORNADO and owning a tomato....