Solidbobtheflamingo(dom male){Megagem}

How I got the name.

Please don't do this

6 years ago. September 10, 2018 at 11:57 PM

First I am not looking to call anyone out. If you think you know this person leave them alone about it. I received a message recently that got me a little concerned. It was a message from out of nowhere I did not know or talk to this person in any capacity beforehand.

Here is the message I have changed some things to protect the person's anonymity.

I am single , (age) , i am looking for an experienced master who is looking to own his permanent submissive (gender) for domestics and sexual life style and who is financially stable to maintain me...
You can chat me on text so we can learn more and move ahead (phone number)

(Name Of person in real life)

I responded by telling them I am not looking to be anybody's dom(I really am not looking to be anybody's dom right now). That I wished them luck in there search. Lastly I told them they should probably be more careful with there information. It wasn't until I started thinking about it later that more concerns came to mind.

This concerned me for a lot of reasons one of them was that this person clearly did not read my profile here's how I know. I am a beginner I see nothing wrong with being so but I only have a year and a half of experience. Some of you might be thinking what's the big deal. Maybe they think that is experienced. To that I say no it is a big deal. If somone else who is new or is fake claims that is experienced they are likely to hurt there partner trying something they don't know how to do. They are either to arrogant or to ignorant too know better.

Why is it a big deal that they didn't read your profile? It is a big deal because that means that they probably sent this message to others and could end up geting hurt. Weather by some who just wants to use them or doesn't know what they are doing.

Next this person just gave me there number and name in the first message before knowing the first thing about me. I would strongly recommend to everyone too be careful with any information especially those two things.

Lastly they are basically asking me to take on a 24/7 sub that I know nothing about. That is just asking for me or them to mess up and hurt each other. All of these relationships are built on trust and I can't trust someone I don't know.

If you are thinking of sending a message like this please be careful.

Devil's damsel(sub female){HandsomeDe} - Well done...some people are clueless and can use your warning to smarten up a bit. Others are trolls. This strikes me as being quite troll-like. Good on you for taking that high road, in my opinion you saved yourself rather than this person in doing so. Very smart moves there Bob

6 years ago

Solidbobtheflamingo(dom male){Megagem} - I appreciate the compliment and the thanks but I should not have either because this is something I had to do. I don't know if it is a troll or if they are ignorant. I just hope that if one person reads this be they sub or dom or anything that maybe it will get them to think even a little safer.

I feel like I just gave some miss America generic response but that is genuinely how I feel.

6 years ago

Bunnie - Much respect, Solidbobtheflamingo :)

6 years ago

Solidbobtheflamingo(dom male){Megagem} - As I have said above I appreciate the thanks and compliments, but I must insist on the fact that this is not something me or anyone should be thanked or complimented on. It is basic human decency. Other people have been there when I have done stupid things they probably face palmed and sighed but most of the time somone reaches out to help. You learn you grow you get better. I know I still have a ton to learn but if I see anyone out there about too do something ignorant or if I can help in any way I should help them. Just as others have helped me. This is how we get a community that love and support each other not just now but in the future. You are right though @Fudbar there are going to be a lot that don't learn or won't listen.

I still sound vapid but again it is what I believe.

6 years ago

Komadori(sub female) - Good warning, but some people really don't learn. Honestly I've encountered a lot of doms and subs who do that. Sending a copy-pasted message with their personal information. Those people should've realized how dangerous that is. :/
And I agree, reading profile before sending a message is so important!!

6 years ago

Talula{Intrigued7} - I think what people are saying is YOUR actions where admirable and thoughtful. You could have easily taken advantage of this person and you didn’t - it say a lot about you as a person!! Not everyone would have reacted the way you did.

6 years ago

PappaBear - Huge kudos bob. I think it’s been pretty well covered. I think we’ve all had more than enough opportunity to set someone straight. I’ve had 3 in the last 2 days. Frankly it’s getting old. I mean I don’t want these people getting themselves hurt being impatient but you can’t save everyone from themselves.

6 years ago

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Solidbobtheflamingo​(dom male){Megagem}

How I got the name.

Please don't do this

Solidbobtheflamingo(dom male){Megagem}