THINKING AND KINKING

"I guess I kinda liked the way you numbed all the pain"

I'm going under and this time I fear there's no one to save me
This all or nothing really got a way of driving me crazy
I need somebody to heal
Somebody to know
Somebody to have
Somebody to hold
It's easy to say
But it's never the same
I guess I kinda liked the way you numbed all the pain
Now the day bleeds
Into nightfall
And you're not here
To get me through it all
I let my guard down
And then you pulled the rug
I was getting kinda used to being someone you loved
I'm going under and this time I fear there's no one to turn to
This all or nothing way of loving got me sleeping without you
Now, I need somebody to know
Somebody to heal
Somebody to have
Just to know how it feels
It's easy to say but it's never the same
I guess I kinda liked the way you helped me escape
Now the day bleeds
Into nightfall
And you're not here
To get me through it all
I let my guard down
And then you pulled the rug
I was getting kinda used to being someone you loved
And I tend to close my eyes when it hurts sometimes
I fall into your arms
I'll be safe in your sound 'til I come back around
For now the day bleeds
Into nightfall
And you're not here
To get me through it all
I let my guard down
And then you pulled the rug
I was getting kinda used to being someone you loved
But now the day bleeds
Into nightfall
And you're not here
To get me through it all
I let my guard down
And then you pulled the rug
I was getting kinda used to being someone you loved
I let my guard down
And then you pulled the rug
I was getting kinda used to being someone you loved

MDG ❤️🤗❤️

I just need some time, I'm tryna think straight
I just need a moment in my own space
Ask me how I'm doin', I'll say "okay, " yeah
But ain't that what we all say?
Sometimes I think back to the old days
In the pointless conversations with the old me
Yeah, back when my momma used to hold me
I wish somebody woulda told me
If you want love, you gon' have to go through the pain
If you want love, you gon' have to learn how to change
If you want trust, you gon' have to give some away
If you want love, if you want love
Yeah, as a kid I used to think life
Is moving so slow, I watch it go by
Look out the window on my bus ride
I thought the world was so small, through my closed eyes
I've always tried to control things
In the end that's what controls me
Maybe that's why I'm controllin'
I wish somebody woulda told me
If you want love, you gon' have to go through the pain
If you want love, you gon' have to learn how to change
If you want trust, you gon' have to give some away
If you want love, if you want love
The older I get, I feel like I'm always tryna save time
Talkin' to the voices in my head, they make me think twice
Tellin' me it doesn't mean it's wrong because it feels right
I'm scared that one day I wake up and wonder where the time go
Talk about the past like it's the present while I rock slow
I'll sit in the living room and laugh with kids of my own
And tell 'em
If you want love, you gon' have to go through the pain
I wish you woulda told me
If you want love, you gon' have to learn how to change
I wish somebody woulda told me
If you want trust, you gon' have to give some away
You gon' have to give
If you want love, if you want love
If you want love, if you want love 

MDG ❤️

How honest is too honest? Is there really such a thing?

I always say I wear my heart on my sleeve and that I am always honest. I say what I mean and mean what I say.

However, seriously ask yourselves my friends...at what price??  What if your honesty and your choice of words are so very hurtful to someone that you love and care about?  Was it all worth it in the end?

It should NEVER EVER be about you. It should ALWAYS be about the other person and how your words and your need for truth and full disclosure can and will affect the other person.

We all MUST think long and hard and ALWAYS listen to the point of view of great friends. Take it to heart and THINK before we SPEAK. If we don't, the consequences could be extremely detrimental beyond repair and once our words are spoken, those words and actions can NEVER EVER be undone!

We all have talked about open and honest communication. And I have several times as well. Honesty is a great trait to have at times. But great friends and their advice should be always heeded! Always think of yourself and put yourself first, but NEVER at the detriment of another person!

My selfish need for total honesty has hurt someone special very badly and I truly regret that I did not choose my words or the correct words properly, or to not even use my words at all in this case. I value the opinion of my friend so very much and I should have listened and listened well.

There are no take backs, only damage control. There are times in life to use extreme caution and tread very lightly and this was certainly one of them and I failed. I have however learned a valuable lesson from my lapse in judgement. I am now trying to pick up the scattered pieces that I have been left with and I will certainly move forward as I always do!  

Please use your words, but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE use them wisely!!! Always make an attempt to be the best possible version of yourself!

Be honest, but please be kind!
Be honest, but please don't be an ass!

MDG ❤️

Football season is back and the games are now underway!

Are you ready??

I know that I am!! 

MDG 🏈

"If I could turn back the clock
I'd make sure the light defeated the dark
I'd spend every hour, of every day
Keeping you safe"

I love this version of the song SO very much!  Keep in mind that he is Autistic and blind!! 

As usual, thank you all for stopping by my blog. I wish everyone peace, love, and happiness always! But most importantly, please stay safe! 🤗❤️🤗

MDG 

ROMANCE

Lyrics

I was built for romance
And I was running to pass you by
Through daisies in a faded white
And thorns and cobwebs
You were born a recluse
And I was fixing to ask you why
For the hundred millionth time
Who you foolin’?

Cause it takes a certain kind of fool
Waking up and smoking next to you
Did you even replace your Sunday clothing?
Cause it takes a certain kind of cool
Fucking up like where’s tomorrows news
It’s a sunny day and now it’s raining

You were born a titan
But you’re scared to be all alone
You leave your light on when no one’s home
Man, why you wasting?
I was built for torment
I won’t feel it when you don’t care
So remind me some time next year
Call my mother

Cause it takes a certain kind of fool
Waking up and smoking next to you
Did you even replace your Sunday clothing?
Cause it takes a certain kind of cool
Fucking up like where’s tomorrows news
It’s a sunny day and now it’s raining

Cause it takes a certain kind of fool
Waking up and smoking next to you
Did you even replace your Sunday clothing?
Cause it takes a certain kind of cool
Fucking up like where’s tomorrows news
It’s a sunny day and now it’s raining
It’s a sunny day and now it’s raining
It was a sunny day, now it’s raining 

MDG  ❤️

Today marks the date that I have been on The Cage for exactly one year. However, it is not a "Happy Cageversary."

I just removed Kitti from my collar, it is a sad and heartbreaking day.  I know that many of you have been there before and can relate to what I am going through right now. It royally sucks. I will remain in her life as a dear friend and always be there to guide her and protect her.  

I want to take this opportunity to thank everyone out there who has been there for me over the last year as a friend and has supported me in my journey to be the best Dom that I can be. I have learned so much and grown tremendously by my experiences here on the Cage. 

As always, thank you for reading my blog and I wish everyone peace, love, and happiness. ❤️

MDG

I SAID NO PANTIES ALLOWED, BUT NOT JUST TODAY,

I MEANT NO PANTIES ALLOWED EVERY SINGLE DAY!

IT IS REALLY A VERY SIMPLE AND BASIC TASK OR RULE TO FOLLOW,

AND I SURELY APPRECIATE IT EVEN MORE WHEN YOU SWALLOW! 

PLEASE DO NOT FORGET AND MOST DEFINITELY DO NOT WHINE,

IF YOU NEED TO REMEMBER YOU CAN EVEN JUST USE A SIGN!

WHEN YOU FOLLOW THIS RULE YOU WON'T EVER FORGET,

AND EVERY DAY YOU'LL BE SOAKING AND DRIPPING WET!

SO PLEASE STAY CALM AND REMEMBER THE NO PANTIES RULE,

I KNOW HOW YOU LIKE TO WEAR THAT BALL GAG AND DROOL!

HERE'S HOPING EVERYONE HAS A KINKY AND PANTY FREE WEEKEND!

CHEERS!! 

MDG

In order for a D/s dynamic to work, thrive, and succeed, both/all people involved have to be FULLY invested in the relationship. This is even more true for online or LDR's as they are even harder to maintain a constant flow of consistent communication.

You need to make sure you want this for the LONG run. You must be emotionally, physically, spiritually, and mentally available to each other consistently or it won't work. Open and honest communication ALWAYS is the key! You MUST talk about EVERYTHING! You cannot withold any information from your partner. I mean  NOT ONE THING!! Not even something that you may not tell him/her because you don't think it is important or you don't want them to worry about you! That is totally unacceptable!

Trust is a also a must! If you cannot be open and honest and trust that your partner has ALL of YOUR best interests in mind, PLEASE don't bother! 

Without honest and open communication and trust there is nothing!

You cannot just text with your partner or it won't work. You have to somehow, some way find the time to talk on the phone in order to hear each other's voice. Texting can be misunderstood very easily. Hearing someone's voice and the tone of their voice makes a world of difference. Video chatting is also a must for playtime and really forming that true bond that you always hear everyone talking about. So please believe me when I say "There is no bondage without the bond."

For some of you texting, talking, and video chatting may be enough to satisfy you. But to me, to truly connect with each other in order to build that unbreakable bond for a online or a LDR, it is imperative to set up a time to meet in person if you want to take it to the next level. There is NOTHING like real life experience. NOTHING!!

And it is even more important once you have initially met to stay in close contact all the time in order to keep your bond strong. And finally, schedule the next time you will get together in person so that you have something to look forward to. And when you set it up, stick to it and continue building your bond together! 

I wish everyone tons of peace, love, and happiness! But also tons of open and honest communication, trust, and bondage!! ❤️

MDG

Well...I was silenced for a couple of days. But now my blog is back and so am I!

I'm sure that the truth hurts and being outed must really suck.

But I only spoke the true facts and cared about protecting what belongs to me while also warning others.

Sometimes people decide to take the easy way out and just report or block instead of apologizing to any and all parties.

Unfortunately, the end result is sometimes facing some serious consequences. I honestly hope that anyone in this situation gets some much needed help.

I wish no harm to anyone and want nothing but the best for everyone in their lives.

As usual, thank you for all for stopping by my blog and I hope that everyone finds peace, love, and happiness.

MDG