In order for a D/s dynamic to work, thrive, and succeed, both/all people involved have to be FULLY invested in the relationship. This is even more true for online or LDR's as they are even harder to maintain a constant flow of consistent communication.
You need to make sure you want this for the LONG run. You must be emotionally, physically, spiritually, and mentally available to each other consistently or it won't work. Open and honest communication ALWAYS is the key! You MUST talk about EVERYTHING! You cannot withold any information from your partner. I mean NOT ONE THING!! Not even something that you may not tell him/her because you don't think it is important or you don't want them to worry about you! That is totally unacceptable!
Trust is a also a must! If you cannot be open and honest and trust that your partner has ALL of YOUR best interests in mind, PLEASE don't bother!
Without honest and open communication and trust there is nothing!
You cannot just text with your partner or it won't work. You have to somehow, some way find the time to talk on the phone in order to hear each other's voice. Texting can be misunderstood very easily. Hearing someone's voice and the tone of their voice makes a world of difference. Video chatting is also a must for playtime and really forming that true bond that you always hear everyone talking about. So please believe me when I say "There is no bondage without the bond."
For some of you texting, talking, and video chatting may be enough to satisfy you. But to me, to truly connect with each other in order to build that unbreakable bond for a online or a LDR, it is imperative to set up a time to meet in person if you want to take it to the next level. There is NOTHING like real life experience. NOTHING!!
And it is even more important once you have initially met to stay in close contact all the time in order to keep your bond strong. And finally, schedule the next time you will get together in person so that you have something to look forward to. And when you set it up, stick to it and continue building your bond together!
I wish everyone tons of peace, love, and happiness! But also tons of open and honest communication, trust, and bondage!! ❤️
MDG
