Firecracker Diaries - A combination of stories, random thoughts and an appreciation log of life with Daddy

Cock Ring
Rubber or metal ring that slips round base of cock and balls when flaccid.

What does this do for you men out there? Does it hurt? How do you get it on?

Clingfilm
Saran wrap. Thin, soft, transparent polythene film with the property of sticking to itself, intended for wrapping food but often used as a pervertible for bondage Very popular for mummification. Also sometimes used as improvised protection against infection in oral sex scenes.

OK I would have never thought about using this in a scene. I know people that use it when they work out to increase their perspiration...I can't imagine what it does doing a scene! And in the description it says sometimes used against infection in oral sex scenes? What??

Thoughts?

Clamp
Gripping device that can be used to put pressure on suitable body sites, notably nipples (see nipple torture) but also noses, cunts, loose body skin and so on. Very often a pervertible of some sort.

I can stand a clamp for about 5 seconds... then it just feels like the pain is just unbearable...and this is on my nipples! But Daddy can pinch, pull, nibble, bite and suck on them hard... and I love it! I haven't tried it on any other body part... how do you get to where its not so intense? Pleasurable?

Thoughts?

Circumcision

Acucullophallia, being 'cut'. In males, the cutting away of some or all of the foreskin to expose the glans, sometimes carried out for religious reasons, and also for hygiene, though the last reason is rather unjustified if the penis is cleaned regularly, and sometimes because foreskins are too tight or cause problems in other ways. Some people have distinct preferences for circumcised or uncircumcised cocks: the attraction to circumcised ones is called acucullophilia. Uncircumcised ('uncut') men often have more sensitivity than those who have been cut, and of course have more foreskin to play with. There will also be differences in masturbation techniques.

The female equivalent is the removal of the prepuce or clitoris hood, and is sometimes carried out when a woman finds it inhibits her orgasm. The folk practices that are sometimes described as 'female circumcision can involve clitoridectomy and other genital alterations.

I knew what circumcision was as I was the mother of a male. I have not seen an un-circumcised penis except for in a porno. I often wondered later if I should have not gotten my child circumcised...and let him make that decision himself. I'm not real sure it was my decision to make? But its done now...

I had no idea that it was also something that a female could have done? Has anyone heard of this? Anyone have it done? Know someone who has??

Thoughts?

Circlip Pliers

Pliers that open outwards when squeezed, ideal for opening and closing the ball closure rings used as permanent piercing jewelry.

What the why??? Please help...

Canula

Latin for channel; medically any semi-permanent arrangement giving access to the bloodstream. The wide hollow needles used, of which the best known brand are Medicuts, are also used for permanent piercing

Catheter - catheterization

Cath. Flexible tube used in medical treatment and surgery for feeding into various body structures to allow access from the outside. In SM most likely to mean those catheters designed for the bladder, often utilized in SM 'control scenes: the best type to use for this purpose is the foley catheter, which has a balloon that can be inflated with sterile water to hold it in place once inserted.

I never imagined these items used in scenes until I read these descriptions. So my virgin imagination is going wild. Has anyone ever used either of these in name scene? Ever witnessed it. Thoughts? Feelings? 

Cane, caning
Thin flexible rod, traditionally of rattan; striking with such an implement as in the old-style school punishment, typically across the buttocks. Usually leaves marks and/or welts and is more damaging than one might expect.

I have not experienced a cane. I've never even seen one. Honestly I don't think I am anywhere close to ready for that. I feel a little afraid of it just thinking about it. But...I was afraid of the thought of the whip before it was introduced to me... and I kinda like it! BT somehow I don't think they are the same...

Thoughts?

Candle
Could be used as an improvised dildo, but much more likely to occur in SM as a source of hot wax, in which case white household candles are preferred for their lower temperature.

This is not something I have tried at this point... but am open to it! It intrigues me. Especially if you add in a blindfold! I still b like to dip my finger in a freshly blown out candle and roll around the wax!!!

Thoughts?

Califia, Pat
US-based lesbian writer, activist and self-proclaimed sadist and arguably the most influential modern commentator on the SM scene.

Until I was getting ready for today's blog...I had never heard of this person... but now I'm extremely intrigued and want to look more into some of their writings. Have any of you read any?

Cage
Perhaps the ultimate all-round bondage and beloved of those into prisoner and Animal Training scenes.

I saw an actual cage once at a dungeon that we went to. I watched this lady pleasure her male through the bars. It wasn't that erotic for me... but maybe it was for them. I'm more curious to know if anyone had a cage of their own at home and how it gets used? Anyone?