Firecracker Diaries - A combination of stories, random thoughts and an appreciation log of life with Daddy

Cable Tie
Narrow disposable plastic belt designed to lock back on itself that can be used for bondage purposes.

How do you include these in a scene? How do you keep it safe?

Thoughts?

CBT, CBTT
Cock and Ball Torture, Cock Ball and Tit (Nipple) Torture

Please explain...I would love to hear from anyone that has experience with either b of these. What happens? How does it feel to you... giving or taking? What types of things are used? Please tell...

Butt Plug
Object designed to be inserted in the rectum and shaped so that it stays in position by trapping the sphincter between the bulk of the plug and the wide flanged base, an idea often more effective in theory than in practice. Various designs are available: the conical shape is the most popular but there are also torpedoes (similar to conicals but with flattened points), doorknobs (spherical) and double doorknobs (one sphere on top of another). They are usually made of solid latex but sometimes in other materials like conductive acrylic for special purposes. Latex plugs should have chains inside as a safety feature, to allow removal if they break off inside the body: the end of the chain should be clearly visible where it emerges at the base.It is very wise to start very modestly at first and build up slowly.

My introduction to these were with Daddy. Before him I had no idea what they were for or what their purpose was. Not until he started working with me on anal play that I had never done before... did he introduce the button plugs into our lives. I use them before we are going to have anal play as a means of preparing myself and my body. They aren't my favorite thing at all... but they do their purpose. I love to have anal play but I have to prepare for it... my body needs the time to get ready for Daddy!!

How do you use it? Are there ones that are better than others? Best lube?

Thoughts?

Bullwhip-
Very long and heavy plaited leather whip.
Buntline hitch -
Knot with a resizable loop.

OK... how are these used? I mean I know what a bullwhip is... but I didn't know they were used in BDSM. And as for the other...I don't know what that is... help!

Explanations?

Brown Showers
The act of one person defecating on another in an erotic context.

This is a hard no for me. I had a hard time changing my own childs diaper... Definitely couldn't handle any other children's...so I know without a doubt that this is not for me.

But I would like to hear from some that have tried it... and how it worked out? Or from someone that is into it...do tell!!

Thoughts?

Breath Control - Asphyxiaphilia, auto-erotic asphyxiation (if solo play), breath games, breath play, hypoxyphilia. Games involving control or restriction of air and/or the supply of oxygen to the brain. Strangling is usually the compression of the carotid arteries to prevent oxygenated blood reaching the brain; suffocation involves reducing the level of oxygen in the air available to breathe. Hanging, where the body is suspended by the neck, though a relatively common fantasy, is very difficult to stage in a non-harmful way for SM scenes: remember that judicial hanging was intended to break the spine, not cause death by suffocation. All these games are very dangerous to play alone, and may also be dangerous if with a partner.

This is so hot... I would have never believed that I would love this as much as I do... but I love it! It brings a whole new level to pleasure...aaaammmazing.

Thoughts?

Brat
A submissive who enjoys rebelling in a childlike way against their dominant. Brats usually use their behavior to encourage spanking scenes.

I think I have a tendency to want to be bratish... I'm not an outright brat...in fact I don't think I've ever acted out in any way... but in my head I want to...lol. This is definitely something I need to discuss with Daddy... Maybe he would like it too... I wouldn't mind a spanking! Lol!!!

Thoughts?

Block and Tackle
A device that makes it possible to lift heavy weights with little effort using arrangements of wheels and ropes, ideal for suspension scenes.

I have absolutely no experience with this. I never even seen one... on a picture, on a movie or in person. I've never even met someone that I could ask.... so anyone her e want to fill me in?

Branding
Making a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by burning it with a heated metal object, as practiced on livestock and in earlier times on slaves and criminals. Can be carried out safely with the correct technique and aftercare but still likely to be intensely painful, and seen by some as the ultimate either in body art or as the culmination of a heavily submissive relationship or scene.

Growing up my family held many brandings for the spring calf's. Back then I didn't think much of it... as that something we just did. It was part of life. Now I remember it different... really pretty horrific if I think about it. The calf would be pulled away from its mother, the held down by men and branded. If they were male... they would be castrated with no anesthesia. I can remember the screaming of the calf's and their mothers. I remember the horrible smell. I feel guilty about being a part of it to this day.

That is all that's in my head when I think about this topic.... sorry to be a downer... but that's my thoughts...

Thoughts?

Blindfold
Temporarily blocking the sense of sight is a common technique in SM scenes. It can make the bottom feel more vulnerable, help them concentrate or 'get into the head space', and is essential to the sorts of abrasion and surface play games where everyday objects are used to give unexpected sensations. Use purpose-made blindfolds such as the cheap ones made for travelers and often distributed free by airlines, or the more expensive ones in leather or rubber from perve shops; hoods with no eye holes or blockable ones (tape over gas mask lenses with Gaffa tape); improvised blindfolds from scarves, hankies, long socks, bandages (Ace are a favorites). Check the blindfold first: they normally have to be placed carefully to be 100% effective.Safety notes: don't make blindfolds too tight and avoid undue pressure on the eyeballs. Take special care when leading the bottom round blindfold. Warn the bottom when you are removing the blindfold so they can close their eyes and open them slowly to avoid too much dazzle. And remember though some people take blindfolding in their stride, it can have unpredictable psychological effects and be very powerful and even frightening for some people in some situations.

I love the blindfold! I feel like a kid waiting for candy at Halloween... Can't wait to see what it is!! The sensations are on overload with the blindfold... and it takes me to another place! The anticipation is so exciting...I love love love it!

Thoughts?