Firecracker Diaries - A combination of stories, random thoughts and an appreciation log of life with Daddy

Cressida Clytie​(masochist female)​{Taken} - I can't speak for all of the people who have humiliation kink. I have low tolerance on humiliation and degradation but I have given this gift to my previous Dom. I'm quite not sure how to answer you on how it is gratifying but for me it is more arousing. It's not for all, just like other kinks you may question your morale.

albuka​(neither male) - I am sorry I can not explain it. But, degrading and humiliating me gets me going so faster then anything else. I love it. I crave it. I Want it.

I am sure some professional can figure it out. But I like what I like. Wish I could help more.

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female)​{🍕+☕} - I can share with you what HANNA gets out of it. Hanna, as you may recall, is my Brat side and she is a middle. She does have one condition (which seems to me to be unique as I've never heard anyone else mention it. She has to be able to humiliate back in scene).

For instance, if she gets called filthy names, she gets to say crap names back. For HER, it's part of the primal part of us. It's freeing to be able to mouth off because if SHE is playing, there is trust. Deep trust AS WELL AS affection. The filty names and words are just words at that point. It's playing pretend because she knows that once she cums, once she hits subspace, the words end and the affection arrives.

For us, it cannot start OUT that way tho. It MUST be bookended with affection.

OraclePollon​(sub female)​{NotYours} - Agree SBD, it really just brings the Alpha or Dom control back to basic and Primal. Another mental control, to add onto the sensual part. I know many subs who like that humiliation or degradation as an addition to their sexual experience. Plus, in cases, it can bring the little or "babygirl" out hard, just providing more sensation and vulnerability for aftercare, a further drop, if you were, that bring great closure provided by an expert Dom to bring the dynamic even closer. Granted, not my thing, but I am perfectly fine with a certain level of it.

Jack of all doms​(dom male) - I enjoy calling my partner humiliating, demeaning names because it is all part if my submission kink.

I don't want a partner who just gives her self over to me. I want to her to a conquest that requires alot of time, effort and energy on my part, somene who vexes me and makes me angry enough to her names because she frustrates and thwarts me at times.

I also find that the name calling helps get me excited as well as keeps me in character and reminds me of what I am trying to do.