so.....we all have our fantasies.....and some of us have bucket lists....upon which are written ideas of stuff we would love to do...years ago before i met Sir i had quite a lengthy list...and a lot of it was sexual fantasies...which one by one....Sir fulfilled to where i need to dream new dreams. but on my list was ...standing in an ocean. and so on one of my trips to meet Sir i flew to San Diego where He lives and so during that trip i did in fact end up being able to stand in the Pacific Ocean.
as i was standing in the ocean i noticed my shadow on the water and so i took out my phone and took selfies of my shadow on the ocean. and Sir laffed at me telling me HE knew what i was doing out in the ocean. and i took other pictures of which i later painted an oil painting from as a gift for Sir's birthday.
so as Sirs mom was dying He placed His painting in His mothers room for her to look never mentioning that He had done that. and she passed. and He left for vegas for a week once everything had calmed down so that He could relax a little bit.
today Sir called and started telling me about sharing the painting with His mom and it made me happy that He shared my gift like that. and then the story unfolded about Him returning from vegas to find that the painting was missing. and He related that He sent one of His sisters a message asking about what happened to the painting. turns out she ransacked the house looking for things she can sell for money and had the nerve to steal His present. luckily she returned the painting intact.
there was a time i would have flown off the handle and been angry about it...and all i could summon myself to say is oh my god what a bitch she is. but i would have been angry if she had managed to sell it and it had ended up in the possession of a stranger since the last thing i had painted on it was my shadow so that even though Sir and i are long distance....my shadow makes it possible for me to be with Sir all the time.