True Dominance

Asteria​(neither female) - It's such a wonderful thing to have here someone who will enlighten us, in those dark times, what the true submissive is supposed to be. Even if they not necessarily can spell "Dominant" correctly... <sarcasm>

Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Hahaha, that is Asteria, took the words right out of my mouth! And anyone last grade 9 that uses the number "4" to speak in a blog??? I will write more below, Lord Judah on your post.

Savida​(other female) - I must agree with the others, we all have different ways of experiencing BDSM and there’s no reason why submission can’t happen in more clearly defined contexts...it’s not all or nothing, TPE or bust.

We are all fed by different things.

You want to write about your preferred version of BDSM? Fine...but...it’s not really on to say other expressions are invalid or less than, they are simply different from what you do and what you want.

Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Well said Savida!

HisRedd{Self} - *my 2cents only*

For the connection I crave from my Dom this is the ideal relationship (For me). I understand after extensively study the different dynamics, not all have the same kink as me. In my opinion that’s is was makes it great when you meet someone that you are compatible with. It is also what makes it hard to meet a match. So I understand what you are say, I just do think it applies to all subs.

Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - As a NEW sub, how the hell could I possibly know anything, right? Well, WRONG.... FIRST thing I do when after reading a "persons" blog, I click on their profile to see if I get just a little more of a glimpse to them.

Well your Blog's title is *The path to Submission", your Blog writings are "True Dominance".

Again, I MAY be a NEW sub, but I for sure hell know the followimg:
A) Your profile is what? That of a Dominate Man? Go to regular sex sites and post that sh*"t not here, Dominance and a Dominate are two different things ! Look it up
B) maybe use actual words in your profile as opposed to 2 for to or 4 for four. As a sub??? My Dominate better be your illimg to go to the end of earth and back for me as I would for him. That includes being thoughtful in writing! If you can't spell fine, but at least try!
C) **SHE MUST BE SUBMISSIVE IN ALL THINGS.. IN ALL WAYS** do you TRULY even know what real submission is? I ask, as I am learning, but have you even learned? Or is this a "notion" you have.

Sorry, I am usually not this negative to a post, but I find everything you said offensive, I them, before replying went and looked at you profile to get that "glimpse" to just be offended further. With that, I don't like to judge, so ask that you don't either!

I know we are all entitled to our opinion, but with posting them also comes those who will disagree.

So, with your post, I DISAGREE with all you said. Does that make me NOT submissive???

Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - And I hope everyone reading my posts gets the "joke" of Dominate!!!

Hidden Secret​(sub female) - Wow!
I am new to submission & this lifestyle, but this post caused a knee jerk reaction that compelled me to respond
1. Believe it or not, there are numerous subs who have extremely powerful & stressing careers. We are actually dommes in that aspect of our lives. But it doesn't make us any less of a sub
2. A sub who is a domme to the "outside world" wants/needs/CRAVES a stronger Dom in their life. Someone they can trust enough to let the Dom take control in their private life. Someone to be their rock, their comfort, their "quiet place". Someone who will accept them for exactly who they are. Someone who will guide, nurture, & grow with them. Someone who is proud of their sub as a career woman AND their gift of submission.
3. Sometimes a sub is very strong to the "outside", but inside, they are scared & unsure of things and just need someone stronger than they are
4. If I was a "true sub" (according to you) & let a man dictate everything I did, I wouldn't be true to MYSELF.
I am a person
I have a voice
I am me.....a strong sub who needs someone stronger

SnappyJ​(sub female){Collared} - Yes! This exactly!

Asteria​(neither female) - Now, to be less sarcastic, and more serious.

What you have written probably rocks your boat. This is what a submissive means to you - those are your needs and wants. But outside of what's "yours" is whole spectrum of kinks, fetishes, broadly defined roles and so on. And what rocks your own, personal boat might in the same time not be a cup of someone's else tea. And that is totally fine. My kink is not your kink, right?
There is not one true way to live the kinky lifestyle. There is no definition what is true or not - my truths are not general ones and your truths are not applicable to everyone in our community. What is more, exploring things a bit of outside of our own "definitions" can be really interesting and / or educating. And it gives us opportunity to understand a bit more from the whole spectrum of BDSM in order to accept ... alterity.

PappaBear - OMG... Who the hell...? What the F*&^^? I almost threw my keyboard at my screen. ROFL I can't wait to see if this one posts a second blog

Cithaeria - Lord Judah, (though I’m not sure what you are lord of)?
I’m so glad you asked for opinions.
Here’s mine: If you are so dismayed by the conduct of the Dominants and submissives on this website, it’s not that difficult to remove your profile and look for a perfect submissive elsewhere.
To solve the problem you are having, going back to basics might be the first place you may want to start.
When you’ve learned some personal communication skills and etiquette, you should look into “how to craft an effective and attractive profile.
When you have completed these tasks, you should come back to the cage and make a profile with your newly acquired skills.
At that point, you may be ready for your second lesson.
This is merely my opinion. Good luck and I look forward to reading about the progress you’ve made.
Sincerely~Cithaeria (Goddess of me)

Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Cithaeria... I STAND , literally and APPLAUD you!!! GREAT reply!!!!

Cithaeria - Thank you Morley

TreasureMe​(sub female){Belonging} - Um...wow! Lord of huh?? So flabbergasted right now. Especially since i was someone you've reached out to and tried to impress me with lame compliments about how I'm more intelligent than any other woman because I'm submissive. And i even asked for clarification because there are very intelligent females who are Dommes as well. Which you answered that a Domme could never be as intelligent as a sub woman. At which time I didn't even respond because you clearly think you're some sort of king of the subs. I just don't have time to try and convince you out of your ignorance. But I couldn't help but respond here when MY profile clearly states I don't want a 24/7 dynamic and yet you wrote me anyway. Hmmm. And if you actually read a book...if you know how...or talked to women like they're beautiful and amazing creatures, rather than ignorant children you must teach "lessons" to... you'd realize that an alpha woman like me has a life and existance outside of her man. My submission is a fuckin gift and should be treated as such no matter what capacity I choose to give it in. Also... I'm not weak for wanting to submit in the bedroom only. I am required in my every day life to be strong and independent. But when that bedroom door closes, i kneel at my Dom's feet and expect him to be strong enough to free me of life's burdens. While TREASURING me and treating my submission like the priceless gift it is. A strong woman's submission is most precious because she's capable of being free in her Dom's cage. So...Lord of whatever...go back to school. You have no lessons to teach.

Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - TreasureME beautifully fu%%cking written!!!!! #STRONGSUBSUnite

TreasureMe​(sub female){Belonging} - Thank you!! Love the hashtag Morley!! How about #StrikeAgainstLordWhatever 😂😂😂

Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - LOVE it... I actually had a Conversation with another Dom on here about this blog... I am going to share because it too is friggin FUNNY:
Dom: Yeah, he got run through the sub gauntlet pretty hard..lol.
Me: Which, the subs cup runneth over ...
DOM: Subs runneth over Lord. .then backed up and ran over him again...

And his, that ehm 'lord' next blog speaks down about Sadism??? Anyone here find that ironic? Lol

AshIynn - Yass queen tell it like it is!!!

TreasureMe​(sub female){Belonging} - Um...wow! Lord of huh?? So flabbergasted right now. Especially since i was someone you've reached out to and tried to impress me with lame compliments about how I'm more intelligent than any other woman because I'm submissive. And i even asked for clarification because there are very intelligent females who are Dommes as well. Which you answered that a Domme could never be as intelligent as a sub woman. At which time I didn't even respond because you clearly think you're some sort of king of the subs. I just don't have time to try and convince you out of your ignorance. But I couldn't help but respond here when MY profile clearly states I don't want a 24/7 dynamic and yet you wrote me anyway. Hmmm. And if you actually read a book...if you know how...or talked to women like they're beautiful and amazing creatures, rather than ignorant children you must teach "lessons" to... you'd realize that an alpha woman like me has a life and existance outside of her man. My submission is a fuckin gift and should be treated as such no matter what capacity I choose to give it in. Also... I'm not weak for wanting to submit in the bedroom only. I am required in my every day life to be strong and independent. But when that bedroom door closes, i kneel at my Dom's feet and expect him to be strong enough to free me of life's burdens. While TREASURING me and treating my submission like the priceless gift it is. A strong woman's submission is most precious because she's capable of being free in her Dom's cage. So...Lord of whatever...go back to school. You have no lessons to teach.

Heart of Persephone​(sub female) - BAAAWWWWAAAAAAHAAAAAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAAAAAAAAAAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA! 😂

Duece​(dom male){Mentor} - Ok...the world IQ just dropped from this post...there is no one way....that is the beauty of bdsm and kinks....

Heart of Persephone​(sub female) - Where’s lesson 2?