AbysFLife(sub female)

Learning to be Myself

Here is my journey -- from learning to suppress my personality and desires because of the circumstances and environment I grew up in-- to me learning to letting go of the bias, standing up on my own and learning in baby steps TO BE MYSELF... :)

Bdsm is a myth !

5 years ago. January 15, 2019 at 3:09 PM

After I joined cage, I talked to quite a few people and began gaining a little confidence in myself. If anything, even the fake doms know how to talk with respect to the ladies here.

A guy friend of mine approached me with the idea of being "friends with benefits" and I thought he should know my preferences before he jumps into any ideas.

So I told him I'm into Bdsm and that I like being tied up, choked and spanked. He went all round-eyed and you will too when you hear his reply.

He told me," Are you out of your mind ? Bdsm and such is all a myth. Nobody does that in real life. Only porn has bdsm and that too only for twisted minded people. You are such a sweet, lovable and cute girl. Who taught you all these outrageous things ! Stay away from weird people dear !!"

I was speechless for a moment. I just looked at him to shocked to speak. Then, when I got my voice back I told hum while smiling," Guess I am too twisted minded and damaged for you to deal with..." Although I was angry at that time, I had a great laugh when back home !!!

BDSM is a Myth, eh ? 😏🤣

Abys ❤️

FunCouple{.-Couple-.} -
If you check on Mr.Googly you may find items like this:

The Kama Sutra describes four different kinds of hitting during lovemaking, the allowed regions of the human body to target and different kinds of joyful “cries of pain” practiced by bottoms. The collection explicitly emphasizes that impact play, biting and pinching during sexual activities should only be performed consensually since only some women consider such behavior to be joyful.
From this perspective the Kama Sutra can be considered as one of the first written resources dealing with sadomasochistic activities and safety rules.

The Kama Sutra marks one origin point for BDSM type practices, and it also makes the ethical point that hitting and other kinds of BDSM oriented sexual maneuvering should only be performed on those participants who understand what is happening, and are willing to submit themselves to such treatment.

I have no reason to doubt the information.

5 years ago

FunCouple{.-Couple-.} -
And one more thing......
In my younger days, as a single D-type, if a 23 year (woman) told me she was into impact play I’d not be claiming Myth.

I’d be asking where do I sign up.

5 years ago

Max Sterne(dom male){Morley} - 😂😂😂

5 years ago

Satindragon{Not Lookin} - A mythical fairy tale filled with all kind of wonderful crazy characters. Including a dragon.

5 years ago

AbysFLife(sub female) - Ooohh I want a pet dragon too !!! And I'll ride my dragon in every way lol 😂

5 years ago

Satindragon{Not Lookin} - Since we are a myth, why not! I love the cartoon How do you train a Dragon.

5 years ago

AbysFLife(sub female) - Right ! I love toothless !! 😍

5 years ago

Satindragon{Not Lookin} - Yes! The night fury!

5 years ago

Thecharmedmuse(switch female){My Wildman} - Speaking of unicorns... this entire post and it’s hilarious comments have reminded me of a series I watched on YouTube a very long time ago called “Charlie the Unicorn” ...it’s stupid funny.

5 years ago

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AbysFLife​(sub female)

Learning to be Myself

Bdsm is a myth !

AbysFLife(sub female)