How you deal with your emotions when going through a difficult time?
Do you relay on your dom/partner when things go south?
Right now there's a very important person in my life going through some serious health issues, and yes, having a partner to be there for you, someone you can talk to who truly cares about your emotions is great, but what happens when you don't have that?
I know the relationship with our doms is super important, but after my last relashionship I learned I need to make time for everyone, friends included, cause when you give yourself completly to one person you stop taking care of others.
I used to spend a few days with not a lot of contact with my last dom, cause when he got busy, I felt like he just didn't like me or couldn't bother to spend time with me (my anxiety played a big role in this since it was a long distance relationship) and my way to avoid that was trying to pay less attention to him so I could recover my friendship with others, and to also save what we had cause the way I was acting wasn't healthy and I wanted to change that.
