PrincessEli(sub female)

Eli

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What's annoying about moving on?

5 years ago. March 20, 2019 at 8:23 PM

You know what's annoying about moving on? Having to start meeting new people again.

Don't get me wrong, meeting people is fun specially when you have tons of things in common, and even moreee fun if they're into the same kinks that you are. The bad part is having to deal with the vetting process.

Who's here for real? Who's here to play games? Who's a crazy 90 year old online passing for a guy in his 20's?

Also, being with someone for a while and trusting them enough to show them your insecurities it's great, but when you have to start over dealing with all the emotions and anxiety that it brings showing a new person all of you, body and soul, it's nerve wrecking.

Everytime I take a step foward I do it with fear. Fear of rejection for being too weird or not being good looking enough, but I can't let it take the best of me cause at the end of the day I know I'm pretty badass, insecurities and all.

HGB(sub female){Scottish M} - I went on my first semi real date after my divorce at 46yo. I say semi because we met at a park and walked the nature trail. He was more interesting in taking pictures of the surroundings.

5 years ago

PrincessEli(sub female) - Good thing is you decided to give it a try, the bad thing is it wasn't what you were expecting. I said it, the vetting process can be veryyy annoying. The hard part for me is trying to be comfortable again around someone, but not too much that I'll feel hurt if they're just playing games with me.

5 years ago

Lotus(sub female) - YES! The vetting. I close myself off and find myself focusing on why it won’t work, etc. etc. etc. BUT I do feel like joining this site and talking to potential partners is much better and more REAL than dating in the “vanilla world”. I hate small talk and the fake ness that comes with first dates and getting to know someone. I love diving in and talking about deeper things. Best off luck to you!!

5 years ago

PrincessEli(sub female) - A friend said I should try Tinder, but noooo hahaha been there done that, and it was fun, but I feel this site is better for what I want.
Being single can be fun, but i'm not planning on staying this way forever.

5 years ago

Max Sterne(dom male){Morley} - I can definitely relate to this! Having to start all over, the games, the trying to figure out the chemistry, are they really like this or is it a con job? Can so relate!

5 years ago

PrincessEli(sub female) - Right? It can be hard but it's good to see i'm not the only one thinking the same way.

5 years ago

HGB(sub female){Scottish M} - It would be nice if there was a legit kinky dating site.

5 years ago

PrincessEli(sub female) - But with pretty much everyone having access to the internet, it's hard to see who's for real and who's not.

5 years ago

HGB(sub female){Scottish M} - True, yet same for vanilla sites. And not everyone goes to functions. I would try it. But that's me.

5 years ago

Bunnie - So true. It’s exhausting.

5 years ago

PrincessEli(sub female) - Yes, today has been too much for me. I came to this site to meet new people and move on, but the vetting process is like having tons of mini breakups with people .

5 years ago

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What's annoying about moving on?

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