Eli

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Are subs weak?

5 years ago. April 15, 2019 at 7:17 PM

Do Doms feel less vulnerable than subs?

Being the one with the "power" in a relationship can make you feel like it's harder to get hurt?

After all the things I've been through I've found myself running away from a part of me that makes me feel vulnerable. I've been trying to toughen up and let myself wander through other paths the BDSM community has to offer, none related to being a sub.

I know being a sub doesn't mean you're weak, I know better than that, but I also know it let's others see you in your most vulnerable and needy state and people can take advantage of that.

I thought I was doing great, but I found myself going out of my way for someone who wouldn't do it for me, all because I care about that person and it's hard for me to say no to them. When I was down and needed comfort, I saw myself desperatly trying to connect with the wrong people just to get someone to actually listen.

This is a work in progress, loving yourself is a work in progress and I know if you show your true self to others, you're stronger than the rest that always choose to build a wall and hide.

SUBS ARE TOUGH AS HELL!

honeyswhore{Callie} - Correct.

5 years ago

PrincessEli(sub female) - Sancho panza!

5 years ago

KinkyJ(dom male) - Subs are not weak, they are strong. They have to be to be willing to trust their Dom totally and to be willing to bare their inner vulnerabilities and feel safe in doing so. Doms nust be strong too, to earn and give that trust and to be their sub's guide and rock. It leaves both sides in danger of feeling hurt if that bond breaks. Whether a Dom shows it or not, we are all human.

5 years ago

PrincessEli(sub female) - Sometimes I think I need a break, maybe from being a sub. We obviously wanna trust people and sometimes we're not ready for that.

5 years ago

PrevalingMaster(dom male) - I do agree with Ms. Minx - this Dom is very real But also to PE - it seems like DS/BDSM is for some the flavor of the month - Look DS can be compared to many different things, but I like to compare it to flavors of ice cream. I mean, everyone likes ice cream, right? Just as there is an endless variety of flavors of ice cream, there is similarly an infinite amount of ways to enjoy yourself in this rhelm.
BUT
Let me be clear that not all women are interested in truly being submissive women. Plenty of women out there just on sites like these for ' Ego Stroking' and have NO clue on what that want/wish/desire it experience..i hope ' cage' does not become a FB type .

5 years ago

PrincessEli(sub female) - You can definitely see a little of everything here, no matter if you're a Dom or a sub. People can be super tricky, sometimes you just don't connect with a person but the right one comes and it all makes sense.

5 years ago

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Are subs weak?

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