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Plain Jane

Well I am just a plain Jane with simple thoughts. Bdsm is new and I love learning about it. One day I may have a relationship. I have tried a couple of times but have come to realize I get attached fast and that is not a good thing. So for now going to continue my learning.
3 years ago. September 18, 2021 at 12:45 AM

So I was asked to write this blog. 

They said they were told that people confuse love with loyalty and friendship. 

so here is my response to that.

 

Well love is all of those things. At least to me. They make up the word trust. You see it’s trust that whatever I try and fix on the outside world I will screw it up. It’s knowledge of me to know that I will screw it up. It’s also trust that I will try and fix what I screwed up and screw it up even more than I did already. It’s also trust and faith in me, letting me screw it up. And trust that I will eventually figure it out. 

now for me it’s believing in you to know that you will only let me fall so far. Know that you stand at my door with me. Also knowing that you know that even if I did the wrong thing I did with the best intentions and a pure heart. And your trust in me, and knowing these things is very important 

now I don’t know about anyone else. But loyalty, trust and friendship are love. There different kinds of love also. I love my kids with all my heart. I love my friends. But I believe that there is another kind of love though also. It’s not just loyalty or friendship or trust it’s love with all three of these things and more. Add attraction add lust and a bit of adventure well that would be my drum. You see, it’s opening new doors for each other. Love is not the same for everyone. Love has its own drum it’s own rhythm it’s own beat for every person. Every drum is different and with each drum you get your own sound.

This may not be everyone’s opinion but it’s mine it’s the sound and rhythm of my heart that I’m looking for. 

Wanda style 😊

 

CelloCaster​(dom male) - I hear you. On my good days I am completely filled with love for others… But I must admit that there is a part of this life that is selfish , Which is not love…It can be white hot lust but in the end we are doing it for selfish reasons… That’s my take on it. And I’m always aware that there’s a duality to this life … there is a big part of this that makes me feel whole and fulfilled and happy but there’s a part of it but where I’m just existing to satisfy my own needs and desires… Now granted, those desires can also fulfill another person‘s desires…… I’m kind of rambling here, I know. I’m just trying to think this through. I want to believe that everything I do is for a noble purpose, but I don’t always think it is.
3 years ago
Wandarae{Not lookin} - Only you know what’s in your heart. Only you know the sound of your rhythm.
And the desire you are sharing is called a moment in time. I have faith my true drummer boy is out there and he will find me. Even if fate has already taken him. He is still waiting for me. And when I arrive at that right moment he will smile the smile I am searching for and say I’ve been waiting for you.
3 years ago
CelloCaster​(dom male) - Awww that’s so sweet
3 years ago
Wandarae{Not lookin} - You just have me an idea for my next blog. Thank you
3 years ago
CelloCaster​(dom male) - Groovy… I may have to charge you for that :-)
3 years ago
Wandarae{Not lookin} - 😂🤣😆
3 years ago

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