Well here’s another update on the July situation.
mama bear cam out to play.
I was told not to get involved in the bachelor party and mind my own business.
well………… that doesn’t go well with me when it comes to my kids. Problem with this time is it’s my oldest son’s bachelor party. That would have been fine also except my ex husband is going to be there and my ex is a huge stress triggering factor for the other son. So how do I do right for one son and hurt the other son???
I cut the apron strings….. no my oldest son is a narcissist I’m not going to lie about it. He’s very very much like his father. But as his mom I still don’t want to hurt him or take from him his day, his time to be the shiny star. So I pulled up my big girl panties and went to see him alone. He knew when he saw me it wasn’t something he wanted to deal with. It wasn’t something I wanted to deal with either due to how much he’s like his dad. I was terrified not of the physical. But the mental and emotional. I was prepared for the gaslighting and the below the belt comments to come. I was ready for wall punching next to my head to come.
Yes he threw a tantrum like a child he told me a few few things. But I didn’t back down. His new wife just sat there. Yes she was there I made sure of that,
after he was done throwing his ass playing the poor pity potty victim. I asked him big man, when your wedding is over make sure you dye your suit black cause we will be going to a funeral. And just so you know my son I will have you escorted out because you will be the reason. So you can be the bigger man here and help solve this problem and have two bachelor party’s or one bachelor party and then go to your brothers funeral and stand outside the church and look through the window. But know this I will forever love you, my love will not end, it won’t disappear BUTT I will choose to not allow you in my life. That decision is on you. The out come will be on you. You will not be allowed to blame anyone else. Now I choose to leave and you can think of your answer. He looked at me and told me I have changed. Then showed me he had an owie 🤣. Subject was changed. I tended to his owie gave him options then smiled at my daughter in law and said he’s a grown man he can make his own decision I hope he gets better and let me know if I can help. My son sent me a text two bachelor party’s will due.
now rehearsal dinner a wedding and reception to accomplish and I can relax and move on with my life.
