I think I have noticed, recently, a big increase in cynicism on sites like this one. (on a different site) someone asked is she a fake because she would not talk on the phone (even though she offered to meet him in a public place). A large number of responses used the word "catfish". Now to me a catfish is someone who either asked for money or asked to meat you in a private place. Until they try one of these approaches there is no need to worry too much.
One response commented that there were more fakes, than real people, in online dating. This might actually be true and I have considered, many times, giving up online dating. The thing is I try not to do anything from a cynical point of view. This, to me, seems a bit like putting your foot down on the brakes and the accelerator at the same time. Obviously be safe, but give the person a fair chance.
If someone says to me "humm, I would love to come to England, and visit you, but, ow dear, how will I afford the plain fair"? At that point I would generally break off contact with them. However, even though I know where the discussion is probably leading I will continue with it up until that point. If that makes me a mug then so be it. I would rather that than a cynic.
By the way. Insomnia continues to over shadow my life. I friend commented "don't become dulaly will you" not sure but I think she might be too late.
By the way x 2: Cat Fish for Supper is an old rockerbilly song (I think it is rockerbilly). I can not seem to find the lyrics right now, but will when I have more time. They are not exactly complicated.
