First of all: I prefer to write on my blog, because I see it as my place where I can say whatever I want. On the forum I do not have quite the same confidence. It is not quite the same. It might put this on the Forum but I will try it on here first.
Yesterday someone blogged about having something taken away from them as a punishment. My first thought was that it was too cruel. There is little enough happiness in the world, taking it away from someone just seems bad. Then I thought, so how do you punish a sub (I am talking about punishment NOT funishment). You can not take away something that they quite like or are indifferent to. If you can not punish a sub then are you a proper dom?
In my mind, and in the small amount of experience that I have had, I can be very cruel and sadistic, but that largely depends on the sub liking or wanting it. Punishment is a different thing. Humm.
Any thoughts, please remember I am talking about punish, not funish, ment?
