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Accessional diary of a dyslexic dom.

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So:

4 years ago. May 21, 2020 at 11:31 PM

So I lost my temper because she disappears sometimes and she does not seem to understand that she can not do that, and that she needs to at least explain what happened and where she went. But much more importantly she keeps asking me for money and I keep telling her I have no money, and it just drives me nuts. So I get the feeling she does not believe me. So I said I thought we were finished. I thought she would except that and go and look for a sugar daddy but, in fact, she begged me to stay and seemed very upset.

 

In the end I said I would give her another chance and, now that I have calmed down I am very worried for her because (the short version) she is going to loose her flat. But then I think that maybe she is just trying to scam me (although I can not help thinking that she would have moved on to someone ells by know). She does have a lot of trouble with money because she does not even have a phone and, when I give her tasks she just has to describe them to me, and sometimes I wonder if she is really doing them. Then again, if she is not doing the tasks, then you have to appreciate how inventive she is being.

 

So I suppose I will stick it out for a bit longer, or for ever, one or the other. 

 

Sorry I do not message very often but, well, I just don't.

 

 

AngelBunny - Yeah, I have a bad feeling about the situation. Be careful!
4 years ago
Mama Bear JJ​(dom female){koa} - I am sort of a mama bear on another site I'm on and frequently find myself listening, and giving advice, to people who find themselves getting scammed, either potentially or actually, in online interactions. Without knowing more, I couldn't say if that is what is happening to you, but it does sound very suspicious. As to how to respond to it? I'd agree with Nicole, if it is making you uncomfortable and/or unhappy, it is probably time to let it go. If you aren't there yet, my usual recommendation would be to have a serious conversation with her, set some clear boundaries that establish what you are having issues with ... like stating that there will be no money exchange ever or until a certain point in time, and perhaps suggest you providing a pre-paid phone with enough to be able to interact with you and perform tasks. Her response to either or both could very well be the answer you need ... if she refuses the no money boundary, you know that's all she wants, and if she refuses the phone idea or using it show tasks, then it's likely she's not doing them at all and just telling you what you want to hear to get what she wants. If you find yourself continuing to struggle and want to talk through it more privately, I'd be happy to help and offer advice 💕
4 years ago
Lion​(dom male){Hazel Eyes} - I will say this sounds fishy, when you first meet someone and they automatically ask for money, run. If you have been in a relationship for quite some time that's different, but I assume that you're not married to her, engaged, or known her for at least a year I would advise cutting all communication before you lose more than money. Heartache is costly.
4 years ago

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