Devotedsub(sub female){His}

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Pick up lines. A mockery of the lifestyle.

4 years ago. July 7, 2020 at 3:44 PM

Some of the mail I have been getting lately really just gives me a good laugh. One liner pick up lines telling me I should be someone's sub. Yeah. That's really gonna work for people. The flip side is, it really isn't funny when people don't understand the lifestyle and are trying to swoop someone up and Dominate them or submit to them. TRUE bdsm doesn't work that way. Forming a true bond and trust takes communication. I will say, there are some people out there who really know and understand how it works, but if you don't.. Ask someone. I am not saying I know it all. I don't, and don't believe anyone really does or can. But those who have been around and understand how a true dynamic really works can help you. Please don't try to enter a dynamic if you have no idea what the meaning behind things are.

Just my thoughts for today

-Ds

Jack in the box -
And good thoughts they are Ms Ds,
Thank you ⚘

4 years ago

Devotedsub(sub female){His} - Thank you Jack😉

4 years ago

obsequiae(dom male) - Low effort pick up attempts are definitely disappointing, on either side of the slash.

4 years ago

Devotedsub(sub female){His} - Agreed. My feeling is, if you are really interested, it will reflect in what you say, even initially.

4 years ago

LaVieEnRose(sub female){Kintsugi} - I see the cheap pick up lines as a key sign of some one less interested in an actual dynamic but just getting their rocks off

4 years ago

Devotedsub(sub female){His} - Yep. Normally, that's what it is. I don't usually see it as anything less. Too bad for them...they will miss out on what is really good.

4 years ago

LaVieEnRose(sub female){Kintsugi} - Kind of, maybe one day they’ll realise what they’re missing but I won’t hold my breath. I used to get irritated now I just delete and move on, if it’s particularly bad I’ll respond with my own brand of snark

4 years ago

Devotedsub(sub female){His} - They may not realize. But they still miss out. Ohhh yeah. I delete and usually get a laugh out of the really pathetic ones. I get more annoyed that they mock the lifestyle, but they won't get me down for sure. I'm glad it doesn't get you down as well because they aren't worth the effort or time.

4 years ago

LaVieEnRose(sub female){Kintsugi} - Nah it takes A LOT to get me down, life is too short!

4 years ago

Devotedsub(sub female){His} - Go girl! 🤗

4 years ago

Mr E(dom male) - Contact can be so hard, but it would just be better in cases where people don't try to be too smooth, and simply be honest and try to show themselves.

4 years ago

Devotedsub(sub female){His} - Agreed. Honest, open communication always best. Agreed. Pushing usually doesn't result in a good outcome.

4 years ago

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Devotedsub​(sub female){His}

My journey

Pick up lines. A mockery of the lifestyle.

Devotedsub(sub female){His}