My journey

Aquarius Dom​(dom male) - Please don’t !

LilAmethyst​(sub female){DaddyDrago} - I would love to encourage you to not allow the actions of someone else to be the cause of you leaving this space. Because ultimately their reaction to your expression honestly does not have anything to do with you. I do understand that it can be a little hard at times to not take someone else's reaction so personally. It can cause one to feel frustrated and want to leave. However, I would like to pose this perspective. Try looking at this space for what it is. A space full of a diverse group of individuals who's views and perspectives will never always align. And that's perfectly ok. We are all allowed to feel however we feel.

I am sorry that you are feeling frustrated right now. But please remember. Your unique beauty is needed here and in this world. 💖 Do not allow someone else to dim your light. 💞

Aquarius Dom​(dom male) - This is where people assume Ddlg is paedo shit or incest !! Ffs when will people learn ! And if they don’t understand ASK

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - My blog about when guns came too close was reported as "political"....I think it was revenge. I don't think you are the problem. If you leave, leave because this place is not fuffilling you anymore, not because someone reported your blog.

Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - DS I have said it before and feel now more than ever it needs to be said. Your blogs, to me, help me more and more. Your perspective and sharing is so very important and I appreciate you and your posts. That being said, I do understand the frustration in a blog being reported. It stings. I feel as of late their is a trigger happy reporter on blogs. So, it's not your posts that you should question or considering leaving for, it's just the action(s) of another that not worth your (or anybody's) time.

Please remember that you are a very valued person here. VERY!!! ❤️🤗❤️

Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - All of you are correct. I have said it in blogs I have written. I need to follow my own advice. I can't let other people decide whether I stay or go. Only people who can do that is the Cage staff. I don't feel I have done anything wrong. People are judging... That's ok... They are probably upset about something, or feeling sensitive / insecure.. It's not going to run me away. I had a frustrating moment during an anxious morning when I read the post had been suspended. I want to thank all of you for your kind words and encouragement. Lots of love 💚

Aquarius Dom​(dom male) - We exist as individuals and a dynamic, we don’t judge others ! Why do they feel the need to judge us ?

Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - Some l in the world just are insecure, and that is their way of coping

Invisible​(sub female) - I read it before it was removed. It was full of honesty and pain and your growth. Thank you for sharing that part of your journey. Don't let an unknown person quiet your voice.

dollMaker​(dom male) - The blog was litered with underage sexual activity. It is not legal to engage in sex or sexual activity before 16/17/18 depending on the country. You mentioned one year group which was 14/15. You did not have the ability to consent legally, being a child and the adult in question sexually abused you, as you were not able to consent. They should not have done that, it was wrong and frankly considering the position of trust they should not have. I get it often underage people won't see it as abuse, because they feel they consented, but legally you could not, and the adult knew that, so abused. Ms Robinson or Mr Robinson sexual experiences are awkward things if over age of consent and other party is much older, but when the person is below age of consent, then regardless of much older or not the act was illegal and should not have occured.

I reported your blog because I felt it broke Cage guidelines. I standby that, and if people want to hate on me for doing so feel free, but I ask them to think about the age of consent, the advantage that was taken of a young girl, by someone who should have, and did know better, and that by explicity mentioning ages etc the blog was very likely breaking site rules and even attracting people to the writing who should be avoided, and not easily able to read it.

To be clear I don't think DD/lg is pedo stuff having been in DD/lg dynamics a few times.

Anyway up to the site admin to decide regarding whether I was right or wrong to flag the blog. There was nothing personal in flagging it, simply that I felt it broke site guidelines by mentioning underage sexual activity in away that was inappropriate.

I am sorry if I have hurt devotedsubs feelings.

Aquarius Dom​(dom male) - Would you care to explain how someone can tell their truthful honest story without inferring their ages ?
The site has always been littered with many such references which you have clearly chosen to ignore !
We are supposed to be inclusive and non-judgemental in the BDSM world

dollMaker​(dom male) - I can only see what I see. I saw explicit sexual content with underage links to it. I felt that broke Cage rules. Their site, their rules, but common enough that most sites don't allow underage sexual activity to be mentioned. If Cage admin rule its ok, then I was wrong.

This has nothing to do with being non inclusive or judgemental, simply that mentioning underage sexual activity is not permitted for what I think are pretty obvious reasons. Age of Consent in many BDSM circles is 21, regardless of age in vanilla settings.

I standby my choice to report, and if Cage admin say I am wrong then I will accept that I was wrong to report. No hiding I own the fact I reported and have shared my reasons for doing so.

dollMaker​(dom male) - I give up, there are rules about mentioning underage sexual activity in detail and with ages mentioned for very good reasons. Never mind the fact that such material attracts 'certain types' but publishing it can get a website into trouble with the powers that be, and even shut down.

Aquarius Dom​(dom male) - I’ve just flicked through a number of your posts , unfortunately because of prejudice you have taken your blog down !
But it’s interesting you take a stance as judge jury and executioner!
As others have said the post was about events 20 years ago ! And again I ask you how can someone relate their true story without referencing the age it happened?

Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - Dollmaker.. All I can say is... I was expressing something that happened to me ages ago. I have seen others do it as well. I posted in the title..Trigger warning. I'm so sorry it clearly offended you. I won't be leaving. I did nothing wrong in my eyes. I let something off my chest that needed to be let go. If you don't like my posts in the future, I would kindly ask you to refrain from reading them. Thank you.

WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male) - I wasn't bothered for the blog be written by a consenting adult, about their past, from their point of view. How that gets scrambled I will never understand.

Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - Thank you, I certainly don't either.

Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - The more I think about it.. And what I wrote... I think wow... I was writing about my attraction to older men. I mentioned one situation and did NOT describe in detail what happened. I simply said it happened. So is everyone who says they have been mistreated or abused going to be red flagged? I mean come on. It was a part of my life. I didn't go into details and it was only a line or two of my entire blog that I mentioned it happened. I don't get it. Why would that be something that would offend someone so much? With warning given in the title.. That it could trigger someone when reading because of the topic as a whole.. Being attracted to older men.. Btw I'm 34 and like men 40+...so don't think that's anything illegal.. What in the world would make someone think I have violated rules on this site? Geezzz, come on now!

WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male) - I am too used to trying to understand what is appropriate. Something that happens when you are an author, the guidelines are vague. I have seen what was R rated (now rated for adult audiences but R is far clear)or even should have been unrated, on broadcast TV, during school, or child friendly hours. There appear to be two sets of rules, one for major media companies, and the rules for everyone else. I don;t like it but that appears to be the way it is.

WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male) - I should note I write Science Fiction, and do my utmost to keep the rating down, it adds a fun challenge, the challenge means i work harder to do a good job writting and is more the type of story I would enjoy reading.

Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - Agreed, it seems some things ok for certain ones and not for others. What is Ok and not ok isn't clear anymore. But people will get offended by anything. People will judge anything. It doesn't matter what you write or say. I am actually surprised this is the first time a blog of mine has been reported.

WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male) - Yup, some just want something but they don't know how to get it. I went to two schools where the PE teacher was later a convicted child molester. I even walked in on girls, fully dressed just giggling, running from the boys locker room right before class. The trigger warning is enough for me, says its controversial. I have read for more graphic on here.

Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - I have as well. As Sir Don said below. Why me? Why was I singled out? And why in his profile did this person say he has a problem with people who pick on victims... When he just did so to me?

Sir Don​(dom male){N/A} - After reading the blog and reading responses..to Dollmaker since you act like DS's blog was inappropriate how come you only singled her out? There have been plenty of others blogs that have been posted referring to been molested at age 2 , 3 ,4 years of age . why didn't you report those.. They were just as explicit.

dollMaker​(dom male) - I dont read every blog. If you know of blogs potentially breaking site rules then report them. Cage admin rely heavily on honest reports being made by members, so much slips past that they might well have removed or requested edits. If they sre not told, they can’t know.

I did not as you put it single anyone out, but saw a blog I thought broke site rules so reported it. Seeing the response, which seemed to suggest that it was thought to be personal I stepped forward to explain, no hiding in the dark. If Cage admin restore the blog then I am wrong in my concern.

Aquarius Dom​(dom male) - Having seen and read all the responses are you still of the same opinion that the blog needed removing ?

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Hey DM, you and I are friends but in this instance, I disagree with your actions. I just posted a blog yesterday. The title is "When I fell from the sky" -origin story. It talks about underage sexual history. Feel free to examine it for yourself.

Aquarius Dom​(dom male) - Oh golly gosh I hope you didn’t break any rules ! That is an amazing piece of writing!!

Draiocht​(dom male) - I simply want to voice words of support for Devotedsub.

I would have a few choice words for dollMaker too, but they would probably get me suspended as well.

Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - Thank you for your support. The post will unfortunately not be put back up. It was suspended because it was "supporting non consensual interactions. " I have never written anything SUPPORTING underage or non consenting behavior. If anyone reads my blogs in history, that is not what I stand for. Hippocrites remain amongst us and will try to bring us down, I will support what I stand for. I'm not one. May karma fall where it should..

Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - Hypocrites*

kajirasubm{On Hiatus } - Comment deleted by poster.

kajirasubm{On Hiatus } - I have read all the comments.
The one which I found most troubling was
" the website can get in trouble with the powers that be. "

WOW.

Last century, we were warned about this type of future.
It wasn't the one we were promised.

1984 The Thought Police.
" who controls the past, controls the future.
who controls the present,controls the past."
George Orwell

Aquarius Dom​(dom male) - Wise words I agree totally

Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - Yes!! So true!