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4 years ago. September 8, 2020 at 10:17 AM

Well this is the first time my blog has been reported in over a year of writing... I am questioning being here right now.   I have done nothing but share things about myself and try to encourage others to be more confident.  Maybe it's time for me to leave..... 

 

-Ds

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - My blog about when guns came too close was reported as "political"....I think it was revenge. I don't think you are the problem. If you leave, leave because this place is not fuffilling you anymore, not because someone reported your blog.
4 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - DS I have said it before and feel now more than ever it needs to be said. Your blogs, to me, help me more and more. Your perspective and sharing is so very important and I appreciate you and your posts. That being said, I do understand the frustration in a blog being reported. It stings. I feel as of late their is a trigger happy reporter on blogs. So, it's not your posts that you should question or considering leaving for, it's just the action(s) of another that not worth your (or anybody's) time.

Please remember that you are a very valued person here. VERY!!! ❤️🤗❤️
4 years ago
Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - All of you are correct. I have said it in blogs I have written. I need to follow my own advice. I can't let other people decide whether I stay or go. Only people who can do that is the Cage staff. I don't feel I have done anything wrong. People are judging... That's ok... They are probably upset about something, or feeling sensitive / insecure.. It's not going to run me away. I had a frustrating moment during an anxious morning when I read the post had been suspended. I want to thank all of you for your kind words and encouragement. Lots of love 💚
4 years ago
Invisible​(sub female) - I read it before it was removed. It was full of honesty and pain and your growth. Thank you for sharing that part of your journey. Don't let an unknown person quiet your voice.
4 years ago
dollMaker​(dom male) - The blog was litered with underage sexual activity. It is not legal to engage in sex or sexual activity before 16/17/18 depending on the country. You mentioned one year group which was 14/15. You did not have the ability to consent legally, being a child and the adult in question sexually abused you, as you were not able to consent. They should not have done that, it was wrong and frankly considering the position of trust they should not have. I get it often underage people won't see it as abuse, because they feel they consented, but legally you could not, and the adult knew that, so abused. Ms Robinson or Mr Robinson sexual experiences are awkward things if over age of consent and other party is much older, but when the person is below age of consent, then regardless of much older or not the act was illegal and should not have occured.

I reported your blog because I felt it broke Cage guidelines. I standby that, and if people want to hate on me for doing so feel free, but I ask them to think about the age of consent, the advantage that was taken of a young girl, by someone who should have, and did know better, and that by explicity mentioning ages etc the blog was very likely breaking site rules and even attracting people to the writing who should be avoided, and not easily able to read it.

To be clear I don't think DD/lg is pedo stuff having been in DD/lg dynamics a few times.

Anyway up to the site admin to decide regarding whether I was right or wrong to flag the blog. There was nothing personal in flagging it, simply that I felt it broke site guidelines by mentioning underage sexual activity in away that was inappropriate.

I am sorry if I have hurt devotedsubs feelings.
4 years ago
dollMaker​(dom male) - I give up, there are rules about mentioning underage sexual activity in detail and with ages mentioned for very good reasons. Never mind the fact that such material attracts 'certain types' but publishing it can get a website into trouble with the powers that be, and even shut down.
4 years ago
Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - Dollmaker.. All I can say is... I was expressing something that happened to me ages ago. I have seen others do it as well. I posted in the title..Trigger warning. I'm so sorry it clearly offended you. I won't be leaving. I did nothing wrong in my eyes. I let something off my chest that needed to be let go. If you don't like my posts in the future, I would kindly ask you to refrain from reading them. Thank you.
4 years ago
WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male){CurvyB} - I wasn't bothered for the blog be written by a consenting adult, about their past, from their point of view. How that gets scrambled I will never understand.
4 years ago
Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - Thank you, I certainly don't either.
4 years ago
Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - The more I think about it.. And what I wrote... I think wow... I was writing about my attraction to older men. I mentioned one situation and did NOT describe in detail what happened. I simply said it happened. So is everyone who says they have been mistreated or abused going to be red flagged? I mean come on. It was a part of my life. I didn't go into details and it was only a line or two of my entire blog that I mentioned it happened. I don't get it. Why would that be something that would offend someone so much? With warning given in the title.. That it could trigger someone when reading because of the topic as a whole.. Being attracted to older men.. Btw I'm 34 and like men 40+...so don't think that's anything illegal.. What in the world would make someone think I have violated rules on this site? Geezzz, come on now!
4 years ago
WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male){CurvyB} - I am too used to trying to understand what is appropriate. Something that happens when you are an author, the guidelines are vague. I have seen what was R rated (now rated for adult audiences but R is far clear)or even should have been unrated, on broadcast TV, during school, or child friendly hours. There appear to be two sets of rules, one for major media companies, and the rules for everyone else. I don;t like it but that appears to be the way it is.
4 years ago
WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male){CurvyB} - I should note I write Science Fiction, and do my utmost to keep the rating down, it adds a fun challenge, the challenge means i work harder to do a good job writting and is more the type of story I would enjoy reading.
4 years ago
Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - Agreed, it seems some things ok for certain ones and not for others. What is Ok and not ok isn't clear anymore. But people will get offended by anything. People will judge anything. It doesn't matter what you write or say. I am actually surprised this is the first time a blog of mine has been reported.
4 years ago
WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male){CurvyB} - Yup, some just want something but they don't know how to get it. I went to two schools where the PE teacher was later a convicted child molester. I even walked in on girls, fully dressed just giggling, running from the boys locker room right before class. The trigger warning is enough for me, says its controversial. I have read for more graphic on here.
4 years ago
Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - I have as well. As Sir Don said below. Why me? Why was I singled out? And why in his profile did this person say he has a problem with people who pick on victims... When he just did so to me?
4 years ago
Sir Don​(dom male){Nt looking} - After reading the blog and reading responses..to Dollmaker since you act like DS's blog was inappropriate how come you only singled her out? There have been plenty of others blogs that have been posted referring to been molested at age 2 , 3 ,4 years of age . why didn't you report those.. They were just as explicit.
4 years ago
dollMaker​(dom male) - I dont read every blog. If you know of blogs potentially breaking site rules then report them. Cage admin rely heavily on honest reports being made by members, so much slips past that they might well have removed or requested edits. If they sre not told, they can’t know.

I did not as you put it single anyone out, but saw a blog I thought broke site rules so reported it. Seeing the response, which seemed to suggest that it was thought to be personal I stepped forward to explain, no hiding in the dark. If Cage admin restore the blog then I am wrong in my concern.
4 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Hey DM, you and I are friends but in this instance, I disagree with your actions. I just posted a blog yesterday. The title is "When I fell from the sky" -origin story. It talks about underage sexual history. Feel free to examine it for yourself.
4 years ago
Draiocht​(dom male) - I simply want to voice words of support for Devotedsub.

I would have a few choice words for dollMaker too, but they would probably get me suspended as well.
4 years ago
Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - Thank you for your support. The post will unfortunately not be put back up. It was suspended because it was "supporting non consensual interactions. " I have never written anything SUPPORTING underage or non consenting behavior. If anyone reads my blogs in history, that is not what I stand for. Hippocrites remain amongst us and will try to bring us down, I will support what I stand for. I'm not one. May karma fall where it should..
4 years ago
Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - Hypocrites*
4 years ago
kajirasubm{On Hiatus } - Comment deleted by poster.
4 years ago
kajirasubm{On Hiatus } - I have read all the comments.
The one which I found most troubling was
" the website can get in trouble with the powers that be. "

WOW.

Last century, we were warned about this type of future.
It wasn't the one we were promised.

1984 The Thought Police.
" who controls the past, controls the future.
who controls the present,controls the past."
George Orwell
4 years ago
Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - Yes!! So true!
4 years ago

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