I tend to be more a "giver" than a taker most of the time and this doesn't even have to do with submission or my sexual being. Does it play a role in my submissive self? Absolutely. Giving up control, giving myself with a level of trust and understanding, with love... It absolutely plays a role, but I want to focus more on how it makes up my personality.
Since I can remember, I have always wanted to please. In childhood, I was taught to appreciate what I was given, but more important is giving to others. Giving makes another person feel good, and in return.. I feel so happy. This time of year, I spend a lot of time shopping to find the right gift for all of my loved ones. I hate gift cards, lol. I have bought them when I have been in a rush or when someone requests when asked, but I like to find a gift that I know will have meaning for the person I am giving to. That makes it special. When I watch my loved ones open their gifts, I get super excited! I can't wait to see their reaction and the smile on their face. It's important to note, you don't have to spend a lot of money to give a meaningful gift. It could even be hand made. This time of the year makes me happy for many reasons, but this is probably up there and number two on my list. First on the list is something personal that I can't share here.
So why am I writing this blog? To share my happiness and love for making others feel good. With you, I share the joy of giving. What's the hurt in putting a smile on someone else's face? Try it today, if you will... I can guarantee it will bring happiness to someone else and make their day brighter. It will make you feel good too!
Have a great day cage friends.
💙Ds
