I am not sure if this really should be a forum post, but I guess I can write whatever on my blog. This refers to no one specific here. I just was wondering if anyone else has noticed that when people find something new ... Ie some position in a club, new job, new activity they enjoy ..etc... it becomes so easy for them to forget the ones who were there during other points in their life. The ones who were there for them. People change. People develop new relationships and new hobbies ..get new jobs, new positions etc. For some people, it changes them in a way you question who they even were to begin with. Suddenly when you reach out to them, you are below them. They are superior and you don't fit into their status. Your ONE message to them in several days to check in on them becomes ..."no reason to blow me up.." when just a couple of months ago , they were sending you large amounts of messages or calling you over and over ....struggling with boundaries because they were "lonely." You care about them, so you set boundaries , but continued to be there for them. Now, your one message to them was just too much and the life you live is beneath them. Anyone experienced things like this time and time again? It sure is interesting. Interesting and hurtful.
Love to all
-Ds
