I sit here at my keyboard with the intent of writing all about the spoils of my birthday weekend and yet the words do not come. Sometimes when I blog the words flow through my mind faster than my fingers can type, and other times I just sit and stare at the blinking cursor for several minutes until I just close the screen and move on to something else.
Today I’m going to try to push through that block. My Sir, like most Doms, is the type to expect follow-through from his sub. Sunday night I mentioned that I planned to write a blog post the following day. But yesterday I just couldn’t find the inspiration to share and so I wrote Sir a letter instead. Today I received a text that simply said “I didn’t see a post from my kitten yesterday” followed by the pondering face emoji. Welp, we all know what that means. So here I sit…. *blinking cursor*
I guess I’ll just start at the beginning.
Sir to kitten Thur, Nov 21 12:57PM
Today we celebrate my kitten’s birthday and I am so excited to be a part of her life. I am a very lucky man and am very grateful for you. I know you started rolling your eyes at me much earlier in the day but you are my princess this weekend and I cannot wait to treat you as such! Hurry up and come to me my love. All the pets, cuddles, and spoils are waiting for you!
This was my travel weekend (we swap every weekend). Typically we fly in on Friday night and out on Sunday night, but this week I flew in on Thursday night instead (since that was my actual birthday). When we got back to Sir’s house, he had my gift waiting beside our bed. It was a beautifully crafted collar for little me. We have many day collars and my submissive/slave collar, but this was my first little collar. “Happy Birthday, my Belle,” he said as he snapped it closed and placed a kiss to my lips. *swoon*
We’d both taken Friday off of work and so we got to spend an extra day together. Friday was a relaxed and rainy day. We went to a few stores to buy a list of random things that Sir was being very mysterious about it. We ate a late lunch and Friday we played with ropes. We hadn’t been able to do any suspension in about a month or so and Sir’s palms were getting tingly. So we decided to do a rope session. We made a plan, it didn’t go accordingly, but we agreed not to leave the room until Sir had his kitten hanging in ropes.
kitten to Sir Mon, Nov 25 11:52AM
Friday night ropes was nice too. I know you got frustrated but that’s why I’m glad we did it. It’s important to each of us as individuals and as a couple to work through the hard times. We faced a tense and frustrating situation that went a little outside of our plan, and all it did was bring us closer. We comforted each other instead of taking it out on each other, and we kept going until we got a win. Sometimes it’s the less than sweet moments that are the defining ones.
Saturday was some more mystery supply shopping and then a littles play date that Sir had arranged. My little friend knew we were coming over but our date activities were a surprise to her too. Her husband and Sir had conspired together. Sir finally revealed what our mystery supply shopping was for. We got to make bath bombs and playdough! *squee!* Both activities were really fun but I think I need more bath bomb making practice; one set was cracking and brittle and the other set kept expanding and never really dried up (advice for future bath bomb making welcome in the comments below). The playdough turned out perfectly though. Nice and squishy and doughy and perfect.
But the fun was not over! Sir led us on a surprise trip to Build-A-Bear! I have always wanted to go there. I had even picked out a stuffie and named her about a year ago when I saw her online. I was so excited to see that she was still there. Sir said that I could pick out anything I wanted for her so she got a cute outfit and a backpack carrier too.
Her name is Rainy <3
Saturday night was snuggles, and sweets, and Green Eggs and Ham on Netflix.
Now sprinkle in about 80-90 orgasms over the 72 hours (nope, not exaggerating), a couple naps, and a sweet airport goodbye and that was the sum of a beautiful birthday weekend.
In summary, my Sir is the best.