Wise thoughts

Met a fun gal on here, she’s green but eager to learn. Wish me luck as we get to know each other! 

Years ago I went to a private Christian school. Surrounded by people from my class today makes me feel a bit nostalgic. 

Story’s long forgotten, events missed, fun time none the less. 

I miss good stimulating conversation , it’s been few and far between . Most reason is cause of time. 

Anyone in the same boat? 

I see a lot of "my submissive cannot have friends" that are of one gender, or cannot have friend nights out. I do understand why those rules are put in place, however I believe that is a unfair statement. 

I think its important that people, my sub included, have friends. I would call myself a friend of her, if i had one. There is a Dynamic that needs to be followed, however if it is all serious business and she can't come to me when she needs to discuss something, or simply just needs a ear to open to her...I would like to be that person.

You are your own person, have the right to set the rules for your submissive, if you so choose, but this might lead to the hefty sacrifice of your submissive losing a lifelong friend, or perhaps bringing a intervention to her (an awkward one at that...) if her friends decide to. 

Perhaps....get to know her, find out her friends, and don't set up unnecessary rules from the start. It sort of shows a slight bit of jealousy that is not very becoming. 

I guess as ya get older your body changes, not usually for the better. 

I need to apparently change my diet, avoid dairy, grains, carb foods, 30 minutes a day of physical activity.

I guess if you pump your body full of shit, and you are what you eat, eventually it just doesn’t like it. 

not to say my diet doesn’t vary ...my diet is usually pretty much healthy according to the food pyramid. However I probably developed an allergy. 

example: ceasers Salad Sunday I’m fine, chicken Ceaser wrap on Monday I feel really gassy. Don’t know what it is, but I’m going on a diet. 

What a weekend.

Science center, zoo, volcano, animals (pet store), shoppin, church. Bubble bath. 

So much fun, and every time we get done with our fun time together he gets really tired and passes out in the car. Love it haha. 

My wife is in California, enjoying someone elses wedding with her mother along side. She's there from friday to monday, and this results in me being alone with my son.

We had so much fun, science center, treasure hunting, seeing animals, going shopping, watching movies. Collecting rocks. 

Such a blast, having so much fun with him. 

Keeping him from crying for mommy all the time too, must be doing a good job!

Story time!:

At the science center, he's playing in a ball pit. He figures out he can knock balls out of the air with other balls in front of the invisible stairs. I start doing it and he shouts loudly and frustaited at me: "Don't touch my balls!!!!" 

I died laughing, good thing we were surrounded by other kids and everyone was loud....and we were by a ball pit. 

So, i've always had pretty much a cast iron stomach. Recently, however, I seemingly have developed some form of IBS. It is annoying, i've never experienced something like this before.

Started about a week ago, havn't gotten diagnosed yet but....i'm sure i'll go to the doctor soon and get it sorted out. 

Come on body, don't do this to me. 

Won Indian tickets behind the mound today, taking my wife to the sports team she loves watching. 

Is good, but even if it’s good it can be a struggle. 

I struggle with my Demons, that’s right I of all people have demons. Past coming to haunt me, deja vu frequently occurring. The same test is put in front of me, I pass it without fail. 

My debt has been one of my biggest Demons, one day at a time I’m taking care of it. I want to live debt free, safely, without any doubt that my life is good. 

We often live beyond our means because the media tells us , in every commercial, you obviously need this vacuum...this rug...these lights. Clutter as my granny calls it. 

We all live in various levels of clutter. 

I went to buy a game a few days ago, took a step back and asked myself these questions:

should I play this game in front of my son? “No”

How much can I play it on a weekly basis? “Maybe 14 hours in a 7 day week” 

Can I get full enjoyment out of this game at this time? 

“No.”

i talked myself out of that purchase, bought something fun for my son and I to do together, and a iTunes gift card for myself. 

Moments are precious, the here and now is life. Making those moments precious is what makes life good. Gaining full enjoyment out of what you spend your money on is making the most out of life. 

This being said, more demons cloud me than the angel which I know is there to protect me. Debt is only one of them, and I’m dealing with that firstly and as best I can. 

Be good to each other out there.