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Just a blog about my every day life.
5 years ago. April 10, 2019 at 4:20 PM

I’ve always been big on work ethic. Ya know, busting my ass for the sweet reward of feeling accomplished. 

 

I’ve always been an amazing steward of my time, and of my work. Perhaps my lack of organizational skills confuse some, but I am a functioning work-a-holic. 

 

Ive recently gotten a promotion to “assistant to the row manager” no title change, but ya know I got a few perks from it. Example: being able to delegate. I have been so used to doing things on my own that when I found out I can point to my coworker and say “yo man, do this and email me when you are done,” it just kinda was like “I can do that?!” 

 

I guess the reason why I mention this, in work situations I’ve always been a lone wolf. Never having people to rely on to get things done. Now that I’m in this spot it just is tickling me pink, or whatever color I turn when I’m happy.

See, one thing I gotta say about myself : I’m a Gemini and I have a god complex. Kimidere if you will (for those familiar with the ‘lovy’s’), and it is a struggle holding some of that back. 

See it’s interesting, I’ve always been the ‘go to guy’ for fixing recipes in a book, training people how to make the perfect gelato, memorizing rediculously long numbers or obscure pass phrases. Now I’m the guy that is kinda able to tell others what to do. 

Some might be asking how this connects to my dominant nature, well it’s a lot about who I am as a person. I am very tenacious, I am self sacrificing (from my previous post ‘A New Hope’ I go into detail how I sacrificed my sleep for my prospects peace of mind), I am by the book on most things. 

One more thing about myself: I have a hard time apologizing, not because it shows ‘weakness’ as Gibs says on NCIS, but because of pride. I have worked on that throughout my years and apologized to one of my subordinates just yesterday. 

I guess I’ll end with this statement, always be the best you can be. If you can’t , be honest with yourself and whoever it might affect. 

 

See ya later, space cowboy. 

SoaringFree​(sub female) - Such a great blog! Im also a doer. I've found that even when I have the benefit of delegating duties to others I will usually at least stay involved. I figure it makes me happy and forms good relations with peers. In life, we should always try to be the best we can be. No question.
5 years ago
Wiseonthree​(dom male) - Thanks! Part of it is my ADHD and part of it is just good wholesome upbringing. I get a tiny bit of joy being able to tell someone what to do, but when in doubt who’s the best at doing that task? Probably me. So it’s a balance for me. Last year whenever I took off work 6 people had to pick up my slack, this year I got tweedledee and tweedledum to be half of me when I am gone. So my work isn’t freaking out when I’m gone.

I don’t know about you , but I’m a very hands on kind of person. Idle mind is the devils playground, if I’m not working I’m thinking.
5 years ago
SoaringFree​(sub female) - I can't sit and watch. I love being in the middle of everything. Creating with my hands or designing with my mind are a must throughout my days.
5 years ago
Wiseonthree​(dom male) - I really miss being able to get involved in making cosplays and painting my miniatures. Creative outlets are huge, like for some it’s music and some it’s writing. Me it’s getting down and dirty with some paint, glue , and a dremil.

My costume is going to be a firebreather from fallout 76, I have most the bits I’m just not a seamstress. Curious what you create in your time?
5 years ago
SweetSirRendering​(sub female) - Team ADHD: donning all the hats; knowing and doing all the things. fist bump*

congratulations on your gift of minions!
5 years ago
Wiseonthree​(dom male) - Thanks , a bunch.

It makes me smile cause your manurisms reminds me of how my mentor speaks.

Hell yeah! -double fist bump- ADHD is a gift , not a curse.
5 years ago

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