I am new to the community, so I’ll start like this: when I first heard this term I was like “a mythical creature with a horn on its head that closely resembles a horse, generally rumored that it’s blood if drank would grant immortality?” Cause my brain is just very logically driven.
When I heard what it was, outright, it made much more sense to me. I was just like huh, yeah I hope that there is a unicorn out there for me.
But then I rescended my words...unicorn is basically a impossibility, a irregularity when it comes to the submissive being “perfect.” If my submissive was perfect, in every bit of the word, she wouldn’t need me.
So I guess what I’m saying is this: there is someone out there that is perfect for me*. I am far from perfect, I have many flaws and I am not afraid to admit them. I have come a long ass way from the ignorant man that I was 7 years ago when my first prospect came up. I don’t expect her to be perfect either. But what we become when we connect, I mean really connect, we become better people.
Imagine if bdsm was entirely singularly structured, then there would be no community. Imagine if for a second that bdsm was just one aspect of the whole, then there would be no submissives there would be no dominants.
I’ll leave you with this, I have done this before with opportunities that never have left the helipad so to speak:
( No, I literally didn’t kill them, I just smothered them. )